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To be concerned about DS picking up bad habits in his speech?

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catgirl1976 · 21/03/2015 19:19

DS is 3. He is at pre-school 3 days a week.

He's recently starting picking up some bad habits around his speech from one of the other boys.

He is bascially dropping the middle parts of words. So saying "li-ull" instead of "little" and "nor-ee" instead of "naughty" etc.

It's odd as it's not actually the local accent. I am Northern and we live in the North and DH is from Tonbridge so neither of us speak RP and I'm not expecting that or being snobby.

It just bothers me as it sounds really lazy. If he developed a strong local accent I would roll my eyes a bit as I don't like it, but I would accept it as that's where we live, but this is different. It's not a local accent, it's just plain awful.

DH thinks it's just a phase and I shouldn't keep picking him up on it. But it grates like mad. So much so I had a moment about changing pre-school (though I'm not going to and I know that was U).

It's a really recent thing and I think he is copying one particular boy as none of his other friends speak like this. Again, this isn't snobbery, his other friends have Northern accents as you would expect (as does he with the odd, random long vowel thrown in from copying DH )- this isn't about accents, it's about him dropping whole chunks of words.

AIBU to think he is going to grow up sounding like this or will he grow out of it?

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PinPon · 21/03/2015 22:15

How amusing! It seems that some kids develop a fascination with accents around this age. My DC is trying out speaking in different ways, including dropping Ts too.

MrsCosmopilite · 21/03/2015 22:16

DD has bouts of dropping T's in the middle of words, but at 4, she'll correct anyone else who does it.
Recently we were in a shop and chatting to the person who served us. As we were about to leave, the woman said, "Bye, see you la'er" to which DD responded:"LaTer, it's LATER, with a T!"

hellospring · 21/03/2015 22:18

It's interesting, one of my twins is doing this, the other isn't. Drives me mad, I just reinforce the 'it has a t in, liTTle' thing over and over again. The one that doesn't do it now corrects the other one!

OrlandoWoolf · 21/03/2015 22:22

DS has picked up more Americanisms from watching YouTube Minecraft videos.

And how many UK kids adopted the Australian rise from Neighbours?

ZenNudist · 21/03/2015 22:36

Yep normal keep on correcting it and /or refuse to understand.

Ds1 is 4.5yo and whilst we have sorted out dropped 't's, he has now started making a very northern sounding hard 'i' on the end of words ie. bay-bih instead of bay-bee for baby. Drives me nuts Wink

catgirl1976 · 22/03/2015 09:56

I feel a lot calmer after this thread

Loving the small child correcting the lady in the shop Grin

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SaigonSaigon · 22/03/2015 10:01

My 4.5 DS has picked up similar from school. It has driven me nuts. I just correct him and try not to make much out of it. I'm hoping its a phase too; sure it is.

Ikeatears · 22/03/2015 14:44

Little fish - we are nowhere near Kidderminster - we're in the north west - it's very odd!

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