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to have invited these children to my house?

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Roseleaf · 21/03/2015 17:05

We live in a small village where everybody knows everybody else. There are two girls in the school (age 6 and 9, one is in DD's class) who I often see all over the village. They also walk to school on their own/go to Sunday school on their own etc. I have never seen them with an adult, and I don't know who their parents are, though I know vaguely where they live.

DD really likes these girls, they are both lovely. We see them about all the time & they are very friendly and chatty

We ran into them again today, and I said, without thinking, ooh, it's a shame we didn't see you earlier, you could have come to play with DD at our house. The youngest girl said, can we come later, and I had to say no, because we were en route to DD's granny for dinner, but they could tomorrow

It wasn't until afterwards that I wondered had I done wrong in asking them? If it had been any other child, I'd automatically go to their mum or dad first, but I've seen these girls 10 minutes away from their house at 8pm at night, so I assumed their parents don't really mind where they go.

I don't know what to do now, chances are they will be knocking at the door tomorrow, and of course I am not going to turn them away. However neither do I want an irate parent at the door who has got the wrong end of the stick.

What should I do?

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CurlyWurlyCake · 21/03/2015 17:10

If they knock ask them for their home number, make a quick call and let them play.

RandomNPC · 21/03/2015 17:21

Do you live in a gingerbread house?

Roseleaf · 21/03/2015 17:50

I wish Random. Yum.

It's more the fact that some random woman in the street invited them round to her house. They can say they know me, but their parents have never laid eyes on me.

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TheMoa · 21/03/2015 17:54

They are bound to tell their parents where they are going.

The parents might know who you are anyway, even if you don't know them - or their grandmother will be your next door neighbours sister's chiropodist or something Grin.

madreloco · 21/03/2015 17:58

seems unlikely there would be an irate parent if they are always wandering about on their own?

tbh if I knew children that young who were never supervised by adults I'd be calling social services rather than inviting them in to play. Six year olds need to be looked after by someone other than a nine year old sibling.

WorraLiberty · 21/03/2015 18:04

Curly has made the most sensible and simple suggestion there

Just send them home and tell them to come back with a phone number

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