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AIBU to be annoyed at OH?

44 replies

MummySparkle · 20/03/2015 20:25

I had to come home from work early today as I've caught a tummy bug from the DCs (great). Drove myself home, slept for an hour, threw up the contents of my stomach & slept for a few hours until MIL brought the DCs home.

I still feel weak and sicky, although the I have been sitting on the sofa this afternoon with the DCs and I managed to drink a cup of tea.

AIBU to be annoyed that OH won't do bedtime as he wants to play playstation with his friend?

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Icimoi · 20/03/2015 21:18

He's pissed off with you because you dared to be ill and spoil his playtime? I hope that "talk about this" that he is threatening is going to include some major home truths directed at him coupled with a very strong suggestion that he grow up fast.

MythicalKings · 20/03/2015 21:20

"Going to have to talk about it" Does he realise how stupid he sounds?

Seriously OP get rid of the toys and tell him he's got to grow up now.

gamerchick · 20/03/2015 21:23

Lick his eyeball. Selfish twat and don't you dare run around after him when he gets it Angry

Wendied · 20/03/2015 21:23

I'd be listing his playstation on eBay.

gamerchick · 20/03/2015 21:25

I like gaming more than the average person but all duties are out of the way first and foremost.

FenellaFellorick · 20/03/2015 21:25

He's annoyed?
he can fuck right off, the selfish manchild.
oh boo fucking hoo my childrens needs are taking time away from my playtime.

ShipwreckedAndComatose · 20/03/2015 21:31

Can't wait for the account he gives of 'his side' of this. What a prick!

Topseyt · 20/03/2015 21:33

How old is he? Four?

He wants to "talk about this" does he? What an arse. I'd talk about it alright, by giving him a huge ear bashing.

stoopstoconker · 20/03/2015 21:43

Grin lick his toothbrush

evil and inspired, I'm taking notes.

UghReally · 20/03/2015 21:50

"have you tried puking on his ps4?
YABU if you haven't"
This^^
I'm not a violent person but i think the ps4 would meet an unfortunate end around your dh's head

Oswin · 20/03/2015 21:58

Cheeky prick. God I'm angry just reading this!

AnyFucker · 20/03/2015 22:01

my prick of a father used to say "we are going to talk about this"

tell him to fuck right off

PandaNot · 20/03/2015 22:05

YANBU. In our house we have a rule that anyone with a stomach bug is confined to their room, or bathroom. Just leave him to it.

Humansatnav · 20/03/2015 22:16

Talk about it later !!!!!!!.Ive had a bastard of a day and it would be my fucking pleasure to talk to this prick on your behalf, op Angry

MummySparkle · 21/03/2015 00:41

Thanks everyone.

In fairness I did come downstairs shout 'you are going to sort the children out RIGHT NOW' whilst hiss microphone was on for all his friends to hear. That was a bit U. We have both apologised for our behaviour

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SmillasSenseOfSnow · 21/03/2015 01:26

It's his own bloody fault he felt embarrassed in front of all his Playstation friends. If he'd actually bothered to care that you were too ill to be doing the bedtime routine and done it himself, he wouldn't have found himself in that position. I've no patience for people who get angry for being outed for being a shit partner. Don't be a shit partner and your friends won't risk hearing about you being a shit partner.

textfan · 21/03/2015 02:05

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NaughtyRed82 · 21/03/2015 02:17

Yeah I agree with pp that if he'd agreed to do the bedtime routine anyway before settling to play his play station afterwards then he wouldn't of needed to be embarrassed by you. If your I'll then he should be concerned about you not his play station friends for god sake.
Hope he catches it next and don't pamper to him if he don't bother looking after you, let him get on with stuff himself and no sympathy and if asks why or says your being unreasonable then just point out that when you were I'll that he wouldn't even out the kids to bed without a fight......

AlpacaMyBags · 21/03/2015 02:31

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