Hi all, long time lurker, first time poster.
My dp and I moved to the other side of the country's few years ago as he had got a new job and I had been made redundant from mine anyway. It took me a while to find a job, but I eventually got one in the same part of the area that dp works (quite the distance in rush hour). I don't drive but he does, so the arrangement would be that he would drive as far as his office and I would walk the rest of the way. No problems. However, about six months in,he found a new job in a different part of the city. He said he'd still drive me to work as getting public transport is a nightmare here. He also promised i wouldn't have to get up any earlier as it was his "fault" he got the new job. Fast forward a year later a dim the one getting upearlier and he keeps saying "oh we need to leave five minutes earlier tomorrow, so you need to get up five minutes earlier. Bearing in mind I'm at work 2 hours before the start of my shift and one hour after my shift. At first it was no problem, and I used the time to get extra work done. But if feels like we have to leave earlier and earlier, and I just feel constantly tired. Not to mention the state of the house because I just can't be bothered, and he is the same. Yet he had the audacity to criticise how little I cooked last week, whilst there is a weeks worth of washing up waiting to be done. I do cooking and laundry, he's supposed to wash up and Hoover.. Although he only just about washes up. I've been trying to convince him we should move for ages, and literally only in the last couple of weeks has he actually agreed we should probably move. Other than this we have a good relationship and we have shared hobbies and generally I enjoy being in his company. I dunno, I guess I just felt like having a rant