I am newly qualified in my field. Recently moved to a new city as my DP got a job here.
I was thrilled to get a job soon after we moved, after several months of unsuccessful hunting - I applied about 7/8 months ago, and had a successful interview nearly 6 months ago. Since then I have been endlessly waiting...waiting to receive an official confirmation letter (a month for one to be emailed), waiting to be called in to fill in paperwork (2 and a half months after interview), waiting for the DBS check to be sent off (3 months after interview), waiting for the DBS check to come back (2 months after being sent off, admittedly not the job's fault).
They are really uncommunicative, I have had to chase up every bit of scant information that I've received. The only explanation I have had for the long wait is that they've recruited a whole batch of recruits across different departments, and wanted to wait until everyone had been appointed before doing all the paperwork.
Despite having my passport and other documents photocopied twice by them (once at my interview, once in December), 6 weeks ago I was asked to send in a scan of part of my passport that they'd forgotten. I did so, and heard nothing else.
Since my DBS has come back, I have had to ask twice when I might hear about a start date. On the second time, I had a response - "HR need copies of the covers of your passport, not the inner pages that you sent before". So why didn't anyone tell me this 6 weeks ago, when I emailed the wrong thing?
I realise I've made mistakes with this - it's my first 'proper' job, so I've been unsure of what normal timelines are. I've perhaps not been as assertive as I could have been when chasing up details, but nobody ever seemed to know the answers or get back to me.
I also completely forgot to ask about start dates at the timeline, which is entirely my fault, but I was given no indication that it would be this long.
I have NO MONEY left, I am relying on my partner and parents to keep my head above water as all of my savings are now gone. I am going stir crazy and can't believe that I've wasted 6 months of my life - if I'd known, I could have found temporary work, done volunteering, something meaningful. As it is, I've been constantly thinking "Oh, it can't be long now, they're desperate for [my job], it would be silly to start something else and have to leave straightaway".
I didn't mind waiting a few weeks to start a new job, I enjoyed the break after working and studying for so long, it gave me time to sort out things for our new flat, and try getting fit, etc. However, now I am going stir crazy and feel so unmotivated to do anything. I don't know many people here, and DP has to work very long hours so I don't even see him much during the week.
I have applied for casual work in the last few months, to keep receiving my JSA, but have had no responses. I feel like this job is treating me badly, but I have no choice but to keep waiting as it will be advantageous in a lot of ways. And I have nothing else to turn to.
I realise this is long and boring, but I don't really have anywhere else to vent. I feel like an idiot for waiting so long, but perhaps this isn't atypical when it comes to Local Authorities?