I think there is a lot of confusion here about what statistics actually are. They are simply how research is reported and analysed.
To say that statistics are rubbish because they are sometimes done badly is like saying Michelangelo is a terrible artist just because lots of people paint badly!
All the medicines that save your lives: because of statistics telling us which work.
All the vaccines that prevent your children from dying horribly: statistics.
The safety features in your cars, the way your roads are planned ,the public transport system...all statistics.
Your education systems, your tv schedules, your LIVES ,are all based on statistics, what is available in your world is oftn because of what has been proven to work or be good or be profitable, because of statistics.
They are just a mathematical representation of reality. If you don't understand them, that doesn't make them wrong.
For example
*Breastfed children are more clever than those who aren't
That isn't true though, is it? So i'd think it's the people that nod in agreement to such a stupid sweeping statement that are the idiots tbh*
It seems this IS true, on a population level. Of course any given FF child could be far more intelligent than any given BF child. But when you look at very large numbers, what you find is that BF children are more likely to have slightly higher IQ's. They tend to be a little healthier. It's not a given, its a likelihood, a tendency.
It's not a personal comment on your parenting, its just maths.
It's like someone saying I've smoked all my life and I've never been ill. Ok, but no-one is going to take from that that smoking doesn't cause serious illnesses. Statistics tell us otherwise, and no-one is arguing about those stats.