To send this email after he says he wants no contact?

[Homepride1]

Spilt with dp at Xmas we have a baby dd together! So far no maintenance he buys odd tin of milk and pack of nappies every 3 weeks!

He has older son he pays for private agreement and bear minimum £100 per month.

I have asked for maintance and it turned nasty, he thinks he can bully me, yet would never behave that was with his ex!

I messaged him clearly stating that he can't bully me and that he he knows if he didn't pay his ex he wouldn't be allowed to see his son etc. and I'm only asking for him to pay towards his dd like he does his son

He replied the following:

Ok well I won't see dd at the moment as I need to sort my life out!

You are ungrateful and petty

You loose out on extra support (milk/nappies)! It was always going to end up like this with you, I'm just glad I'm out of it!

So the AIBU to reply the following or do I just have to leave it at that?

There will be no at the moment, you will not just walk in and out of her life as you choose.

I would say myself and dd are the lucky ones!

I will contact voda phone now and change my phone number and I do not ever wish to hear from you again.

If he doesn't have PR and not on the birth cert there is fuck all he can do

stop listening to his empty threats, kiss any money goodbye and remove him from your dc's life

no father on the scene is better than this cunt

If he is manipulating his earnings he will also be deliberately evading tax, I suspect that the Inland Revenue would be very interested to hear that he is doing that. If his business is registered for VAT then HM Customs and Excise would also be keen to have a look through the figures.

Not that I'm suggesting you report him or anything...

anyfucker I'm so glad you said that

To be honest I don't even think he would bother spending the money to take me to court

then there you have your answer

he is seeing the child to keep his hand in at controlling you

cut him right off

oh, I'd dob the fucker in to HMRC in a heartbeat too

I'm a bitch like that though...

Why are you even bothering?

Just don't engage with him and don't you sort out anything that is down to him

Well reported online, though I doubt they will be interested in a bitter ex filing a report online about a small fish like him!

I will no longer respond to any calls, texts or emails from him I have made it clear to him that I won't and I have been as reasonable as can be up until now.

I'm just going to ignore everything and just dorks to my solicitor next week

good plan