Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To want a refund from my personal trainer?

33 replies

chundercatsarego · 16/03/2015 20:59

We've had 12 sessions so far (pay in advance, in blocks of 10- £25/session). Of these, 2 he's not turned up for at all (1 excuse was car broke down, 1 he overslept), 2 he's turned up 30+ mins late (traffic and he misunderstood the time arranged, even though he text me to move it to a more convenient time for him) and 1 he was 15 mins late and then finished 20 mins early due to a personal issue.

At the outset I was very clear that I am really busy and can't be doing with someone messing me around. He did say at payment 'I don't do refunds if you change your mind', BUT in my view he's not holding to his side of the bargain. He's not delivering the service as agreed and I can't keep wasting time with him not turning up. He has gone nuts at my request for a refund and said I am totally unreasonable. I don't want cash back for sessions I've had, just the remaining ones that I won't be taking up due to his being completely unreliable.

He has come back completely in the attack saying I shouldn't be texting to arrange times (this is the way he has always done it, and it was him who text me to rearrange the time that confused him!), he has been so understanding and flexible about me having a week off and he didn't have to be ( agreed at the outset of our arrangement- I had surgery scheduled!) and I don't appreciate all the hard work he's put into me ( eerrr what? you don't turn up on time/at all, didn't give me a contract or pre-assessment, no training plan....)

AIBU to say refund me or I speak the gym manager and will take you to small claims court if I have to (only owed £200 but its the principle)

OP posts:
Littlef00t · 17/03/2015 19:34

Were you employing him directly or via the gym? If via the gym then presumably you'll either get another instructor or refund on outstanding sessions.

If directly i guess you can continue to request a refund but might not be so easy. Be interesting to see if he's at a new gym, they might be receptive to complaints...

Allbymyselfagain · 17/03/2015 19:40

Where are u based OP. If in the South East I can recommend an amazing personal trainer at £12 a session in her own private gym.

notsolovely · 17/03/2015 19:49

Jesus. I had a PT for 3 years. He has missed one in all that time because his daughter was sick and couldn't go to school (his DW was away on business). He was so apologetic, I didn't even mind. I have had to cancel on him more, which, because its rare, he doesn't mind. He absolutely would not hold it against me because I took a prearranged week off. This is absolutely unacceptable. He now has his own gym, but when I started training with him he was self employed working in a big chain gym. Another PT was like yours and the gym would not do anything to help members get their money back. They did however make him leave. left the members high and dry. Unfortunately getting a great PT seems to be quite hard. So many people do a course but are not suited to the job. Because my PT has a great reputation he now has a waiting list. The horror stories I hear ( I also work within the fitness industry) really worries me. Seems a lot of people getting ripped off.

notsolovely · 17/03/2015 19:50

*I have HAD a pt for 3 years.

llareggub · 17/03/2015 19:54

Yes, who is your contract with, the gym or the PT? It is an important distinction to make.

BitterChocolate · 17/03/2015 20:14

When I was choosing a PT (I've had two because I moved to a new country) I only considered those who did a sport, and who had done further study in an anatomy-related field. My reasoning at the time was that I wanted someone who viewed their own fitness in a functional way, ie tailored to suit their needs, because I had specific problems that needed to be addressed. Someone who was only concerned with looks or who had been trained to use a one-size-fits-all approach could have made my problems worse. But, now that I think about it, choosing someone who has done well in their sport would also mean that they are more likely to be used to being consistent in turning up on time and being reliable. You don't do well in sport by being flaky.

MerryKat · 17/03/2015 20:34

You are not being unreasonable! He sounds like a nightmare. Definitely write to the gym even if they have sacked him! They might honour the sessions with another PT rather than risk you leaving the gym. It's very poor though. ive had 2 lovely PTs so don't let it put you off!

miniavenger · 18/03/2015 18:21

I would also review him everywhere possible and put on your own facebook how bad your experience was.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page