Kathy Bates
Diana Rigg
Glenn Close
Julianne Moore
Sandra Bullock
Cate Blanchett
Helen Mirren
Judi Dench
Katharine Hepburn
Frances McDormand
I'm not saying none of them have had any work done, but they don't look like rubber masks. It's not true that there are no parts for older women who don't have loads of surgery and pretend to look forever 29.
It may be that there are fewer parts and that needs addressing, and there is more pressure on women who are getting older if they want romcom leading lady roles, and less equivalent pressure on men.
BUT the best female actors stick two fingers up to that and get to play the parts of older women who look their age. Julianne Moore just won an oscar for doing exactly that, in a film addressing an issue that affects older people.
Male or female, I don't enjoy watching any actor who can't move their face properly and seems primarily concerned with how young they look, because it detracts from enjoying the film / TV show properly. You're supposed to be seeing a character and their emotions and it means you can't believe in that.
I'm not slagging people off for having cosmetic surgery – I just don't like people who are supposed to be actors having so much cosmetic surgery that they can't do their job properly.