right how to start .... me and my husband have been together now for several years married only 8 months we have 4 children 2 together and my older sons from a previous marriage which my husband has brought up from a very early age as his own. husband has 3 brothers and 1 sister. He really wanted me to have a relationship with him and his mum and I have tried my hardest for a few years now to get on with them all though it has sometimes been very difficult. They have always treated his brothers wife horridly calling her everything from a bad mum to a slag, I find her quite a nice person and know she would be horrified by some of the things they say about her and her children. Now they seem to have gotten fed up with her and turned there nastiness towards me and my children. fast forwards a couple of months me and my husband had enjoyed a perfect wedding all the family was getting on then his sister started dropping things into conversation about an ex girlfriend of his and how she thought our other sister in law was attracted to him.A few days later all the family children were having a snowball fight they had great fun and it ended on happy terms. That night I received a phone call about my son getting carried away at the snowball fight and giving her son frost bight in his face both boys are 11. I told her I thought she was exaggerating and both boys were good friends and she blew up calling all my children awful names evil, c&*ts, etc etc I put the phone down and obviously told my husband we decided to cut contact with her till she calmed down and apologised that was 3 months ago.. since then I have had all kinds of accusations made about me and our children from my leaving the kids with her while my husbands at work for full days and not telling anyone were I am, to my daughters being riddled with head lice our children all attend the same school and I have been made to feel intimated there by her husband I have had mucky lucks threats of violence and my children have been ignored. Mother in law has also decided to fall out with us came to our house to try and sort things out and ended up making our 4 year old cry telling her none of us were welcome at her house any more so I asked her to leave. sister in law is currently living at mother in laws with her husband an 5 children as they no longer liked the house they lived in, mother in laws house is only 2 bedrooms. The latest thing is she has taken all her children out of the school and putting the blame on my children. has anyone please got any thoughts on this or advice feel like im going crazy