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AIBU?

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I think I work with a total cow or AIBU?

7 replies

bananaandcustard · 07/03/2015 13:43

Recently in the space of a week I have had to handle 2 frightening medical emergencies. One day I baby sat a 5 month old baby who had a massive episode of epilepsy and at time of paramedics arriving had difficulty breathing.
3 days later my own child had a spontaneous pneumothorax and ended up in the same hospital seeing the same A & E doctor.

when I mentioned that the doctor recognised me, despite arriving with 2 different patients, my co worker commented that doctor would have recognised me because 'you're very big'

I am trying to be charitable, and consider that while I am rather tall and overweight, and perhaps this was a unexpected slip of the tongue.
However I do like to think that in common with every other human in the world, I have an individual face.

oh, and have been back in hospital with my child with another separate life threatening reaction. co-workers comment on 'well the body knows what's wrong with it, I am the same with sugar' was meant well, and I suspect that its hard to say the right thing sometimes.

perhaps I am being over sensitive as am feeling quite feeble in the head recently. I have to mention the reasons why I have been absent from work, but am trying to avoid overly talking about it. iyswim mainly because I might end up sobbing in the stationary cupboard.

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alwayslookingforsomething · 07/03/2015 14:06

I hope your child is better now Flowers

Paintedpinksapphires · 07/03/2015 14:09

Your co-worker is very rude.

I hope the children are fully recovered.

Flowers for you.

PerpendicularVincenzo · 07/03/2015 14:11

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flora717 · 07/03/2015 14:12

If that is all they can come up with. Then yes. A very insensitive person. That amount of medical drama would be a lot for anyone. I hope all of these children are home and as well as can be hoped for.

countessmarkyabitch · 07/03/2015 14:12

She's probably just a bit thick. Never assume malice that which can be easily explained by stupidity.
And don't be wasting your time thinking about it, you've enough to be worrying about!

mmgirish · 07/03/2015 14:13

That does seem rude. Although I live and work in SE Asia and it would be considered absolutely fine to have said the comment about you being big. People here are very straight forward about those types of things. You need to be quite thick skinned. Try not to think about it. It sounds like you have enough on your plate anyway.

ahbollocks · 07/03/2015 14:16

Some people panic and dont know what to say ( my dh included)
Dont give it another thought.

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