To be cross at dh?

[llamajohn]

dh has been thinking about buying a new car for business at about £10k.

We had spoken about how to pay for it, with various options. but no decision.

Options were:
Get on finance interest free pay it over 4 years with a deposit
use money in business account and dip into our savings and pay it out-right
pay for it with some savings and borrow from his father.

So, he comes back today with said car and has decided to pay for it with some of the cash in his business account and some from borrowing from his Dad. I do not know how much he has borrowed from his Dad yet.

I'm cross with him for not talking to me about it.

AIBU?

No, you're not. I'd be really really really angry, but dh would never do that. It's lack of respect.

YANBU I would be angry too but I don't think he'll have done it out of malice. I'm assuming he'll have figured that the previous discussions you both have had meant that you had ok'd either of those options and so he's just gone ahead. But you're right he should have confirmed it with you first.

i think if it's his business he needs the car for he should have ultimate say in it. He discussed it with you, bounced ideas around with you, then made a decision. Which is fine.

Unless it's a joint business?