sorry if this is long just need advice.
Have an associate i used to work with but lately she has been pissing me off.
When we used to work together she used to ask me for free lifts home although she lives in SE ldn and i live in SW ldn. She then started giving me petrol money when i refused to drop her but tbh its still annoying i had to drive in a circle, we worked at night.
anyway she has been showing me a side to her i dont like.
She is always asking me for things to do with my car such as asking me to teach her drive in my car, like why would i do that? she has an instructor n isnt insured but "apparently" she has her own car which ive never seen and she never seems to use.
She has also done some embarrassing things in public such as have random arguments with people in front of me over nothing, i don't like these loud annoying aggressive people but thats what she is like. Worse thing is she picks who she wants to say rude things too aka weak looking people.
I took her to have an abortion and shes starts saying how everyone looks like a victim and she isnt.
wtf everyone is there for the same thing!
tbh i have been lookin for a way to cut her off, shes annoying and embarrassing but the problem is i may be working wit her in the same place in the next month, right now im not.
Ive known her a year and all i see her as is a leech, asking people for favours constantly and its an effort if i ask her to do anything.
example i asked her to come court with me i picked her up because she refused to meet me there and she was slumping around for half an hour (making me late) then said i should of picked her up earlier and she was also in a mood the whole time.
i really needed support for why i went court and she just had attitude
considering two weeks before that i drove her to the abortion clinic she couldnt have it because she smoked, then again i took time off work to drive her again to the abortion and home.
(wasnt expecting a favour for a favour i just needed support at court and she was the only one available)
So she invited me to a party then didnt pick up her phone.
I saw this as an excuse to cut her off but then she messages me a week after saying "sorry for being a bad friend blah blah"
she rings me but i ignore her
she rang me yesterday i ignored her then messaged me saying "oi u old tart"
i dont want to be her friend BUT i as i said i may be working with her again in a months time and i dont want it to be awkward.
what should i do?
what would you do?
and what do i message back? or should i call back i dunno 