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t think if your small dogs are scared of big dogs, it doesn't mean the big dog has to go on a lead?

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Wolfbasher · 03/03/2015 10:51

Once a week, my guide dog and I take my 8yo to her swimming lesson. To get there we walk along a footpath by a river, with some trees etc. It's quite a popular dog walking spot, and we often pass other dogs having an off-lead run around. DD and I walk along the path together and I let my guide dog have an off-harness, off-lead run around for 10 mins. Guide dogs need regular free runs too.

The last two times, we've coincided with an elderly lady with two very yappy, bouncy little dogs (not sure of breed). The lady looks quite frail and seems to have trouble managing the dogs. They jump up at her and pull and wind around her legs and bark continuously, so she looks like she is struggling.

This morning, she got cross with me and shouted that 'a dog like that should be on a lead'. My dog wasn't anywhere near her dogs, she was trotting along sniffing around the trees on the river bank. Admittedly, her dogs were jumping and barking and straining at their leashes. She said they were afraid of big dogs and mine should go on a lead.

Am I wrong to think that isn't my dog's fault? She wasn't bothering them, she was at least 20 yards away all the time. Usually she likes meeting other dogs on free runs, but she steered clear of these two. I did explain that my dog was a guide dog, which I think she took on board and perhaps found reassuring. I don't want to cause her stress or anxiety - but neither do I want to deprive my well-behaved dog of her free run (we are limited in where we can get to for these, for obvious reasons) because these other dogs aren't well controlled.

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Wolfbasher · 05/03/2015 08:40

Katie - thank you! Yes, the free-run 'downtime' is really important for her. She's part German-Shepherd, so she doesn't look like people's expectations of a guide dog, plus as you say, people don't expect to see guide dogs running free. Perhaps calling out to people would help. I wouldn't be able to hear their answers though, which might disconcert them! I'm hoping that regular walkers on our regular routes will get to know us, and not be worried. I have met a very nice woman who is a puppy walker for Guide Dogs, and am hoping to go on a few free-runs with her - she might have some ideas for handling other people that we meet in a way that helps.

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feckitall · 05/03/2015 08:59

I have a German Shepherd X Collie...I keep him on a lead as he is getting deafer with old age and doesn't recall well. He still thinks he is a puppy though and will bound up to play with other dogs but cant won't hear me shouting calling him back! We have a large garden which he has access all day to.
The number of times he gets small dogs which are off lead trying to take bites out of him though really annoys me and the owners always simper 'it's because he is on a lead' NO it ain't..it is because yours is not!!!

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