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To think MN is going to the dogs?

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puds11isNAUGHTYnotNAICE · 26/02/2015 20:34

There is so much trolling, bitching and nastiness on here at the moment!

Am I wearing rose tinted glasses, because I don't remember MN being this bad, ever.

AIBU to think things seem to have gone downhill?

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MetallicBeige · 26/02/2015 23:13

Hmm with the wordage of your title I think you are trying to summon SM aren't you puds? Grin

Gorn to the dogs.
Words on a screen.

Lweji · 26/02/2015 23:27

My cat has a lovely bastard way of letting me know he wants to eat, for example, by scratching things and knocking things off tables.

puds11isNAUGHTYnotNAICE · 26/02/2015 23:31

Who is SM Metallic

Bless him Lweji

What I have to say, I recognise less and less posters these days.

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wartsnall · 26/02/2015 23:48

I wouldn't know as I'm relatively new and haven't yet created a thread - but love joining in on them Smile

MoonlightandMusic · 26/02/2015 23:49

SM is scottishmummy - who seems to have disappeared from MN a short while back.

Actually, thinking about it, I wonder if, in a straw poll, more MN'ers would be dog or cat people? (Slow thinker - from PinkSquash's post waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back.)

[heads off to start thread in _Chat] Grin

Lovemycatsandkids · 27/02/2015 00:01

That Nigel Farrage seems like a g

Millyx · 27/02/2015 00:20

How exactly do you KNOW someone is trolling or making up stories? Because you "say so" doesn't make it true.
I'm an old user but i forgot my password and i stopped coming here for a while because certain people on here obviously have no social life and think their opinion is correct and if you don't share the same they call you a troll or whatever lame crap and then proceed to stalk you on every thread whilst being the lame internet gangster, (thats what a troll is btw)
You just have to feel sorry for them they really think their words get to people when really they are as irrelevant here as they are in the real world.

MetallicBeige · 27/02/2015 00:26

Re: the not recognising names, lots of people regularly namechange. I know I do.

Lweji · 27/02/2015 00:37

I don't know Millyx. I have just been on a thread where you posted a highly controversial opinion. I'm definitely not following you, as I posted much earlier on this one, btw. If you post a lot on Relationships or AIBU, or any specific board, you do end up crossing paths with many of the same people. And if you are often that controversial, it's not surprising that you will end up having run ins with almost always the same people.

I have never noticed anyone trolling me, although I do cross paths with people like Cogito a lot. :) And AF, and mathanxiety, and many others.

My excuse for not recognising many names is not even reading them, just the posts. and old age

Lovemycatsandkids · 27/02/2015 00:43

I blame the parents.

BigCatFace · 27/02/2015 01:04

These threads are just excuses for established old timers like yourself to show off.

Millyx · 27/02/2015 01:14

How is it controversial? Because i don't share the same opinion as some due to experience why is that marked as controversial? its realistic because of experience.

grumpasaur · 27/02/2015 01:35

Just for the record I have a wedding thread going in AIBU and I am not a hairy troll! when I have an update I will go back on, but I actually got useful feedback and advise so still glad I posted!

puds11isNAUGHTYnotNAICE · 27/02/2015 09:29

Ah yes, haven't seen SM for a while.

Big how rude Grin I am not old!

People name change so much I loose track of who they are now. I'm not very good at recognising posting styles, so usually really on a more astute MN to tell me who they are Grin

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JugglingFromHereToThere · 27/02/2015 09:39

Have just been reading pineapples thread in AIBU - apparently a regular poster name changing to get support as experiencing DV during pregnancy.

But now, after 8 pages, it's being removed by MNHQ because they have reason to believe poster is not "entirely genuine"

Would you believe it? Who makes up a thread on this sort of stuff? Yeh, OK, if someone was bored maybe a juicy bridezilla thread. But this?

WTAF! as they say. You can only hope it may help others I suppose

BuzzardBird · 27/02/2015 09:45

MN is going to the dogs? Is it a coach trip? I'm in!

puds11isNAUGHTYnotNAICE · 27/02/2015 09:45

Juggling I'm afraid to say I have seen people make up much worse than that Sad I left MN a couple of years ago after experiencing two troll threads in one day that where so ghastly I couldn't believe it.

I can PM you the subject matter if you want, may surprise you what people will lie about!

I have seen troll threads being allowed to stand by HQ as the advice given by lovely MNetters is so good they felt it should be left as a resource for others. I agree with this, as long as people are aware the OP is a troll.

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puds11isNAUGHTYnotNAICE · 27/02/2015 09:46

All a board Buzzard!

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Jackieharris · 27/02/2015 09:46

How many regular/non regular posters are there on mn these days?

I used to be in a fb group that came off a mn thread. Think there was about a hundred of us in it, about 20 active. It eventually got deleted after fall outs. I don't know if any of them are still on mn.

BuzzardBird · 27/02/2015 09:51

I will bring wine for the coach journey and Lemon Drizzle cake :)

puds11isNAUGHTYnotNAICE · 27/02/2015 09:51

There are still quite a few regulars about, but I know lot of them have name changed and I cannot keep up!

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puds11isNAUGHTYnotNAICE · 27/02/2015 09:52

Buzzard Grin

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JugglingFromHereToThere · 27/02/2015 09:59

Ooh yes, trip to the dogs with lovely MNers and lemon drizzle cake Cake and wine Wine sounding good even at this early hour!

A PM would be interesting puds - but spare me the details please I'm feeling a bit delicate today but still nosey Smile

puds11isNAUGHTYnotNAICE · 27/02/2015 10:03

I feel an excursion coming on Grin

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ProcrastinateNoMore · 27/02/2015 10:06

The thing that is killing MN the most isn't trolling, it's the constant attempts to prove how 'right on' posters are. Threads are constantly derailed by posters itching to be offended by anything they can find, be it a word used (the acceptable vocab on MN is shrinking day by day) or some perceived whiff of -ism of choice. It is killing the humour because posters are having to tie themselves in knots to avoid offending anyone. And really there are some posters who can be offended by ANYTHING.

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