I've just moved out of Greater London ( Bromley) after 13 years. I have 3 DC with my DH. We rented for years and lived in our last house for 6 years. We had kids in less than ideal circumstances so hadn't been able to buy. My husband was born and brought up in Bromley and my children have been attending the same primary for 6-7 years.
We have just managed to buy a small 4 bed house in Kent which needs complete refurbishment . My inlaws have leant us some of the deposit and we saved too. It's been a huge upheaval and I didn't want to leave London but after renting for more than 20 years, I am happy to get away from the awful insecurity of it all and paying my rogue landlord £1,550 a month for a run down, inefficient grubby rental that had no work done for over 15 years.
We spent money looking after it as he didn't pay a penny on internal or external maintenance. He issued us with a Section 21 and then said he wanted an extra 350 PCM or we leave! So we paid the extra for 5 months while we bought the house.
I hate the fact that we have been priced out but even if I went back to full time work , we still couldn't ever afford a 4 bedroomed house. It's about 5- 800k for a 3 or 4 bed house in Bromley. What a joke! The whole area is populated with little old ladies in big 3 bed semis, wealthy buy to let landlords and foreign investors.
My next door neighbour lived in her 3 bed semi for 53 years then sold it last summer to a banker with 1 adult child at uni for above the asking price of £500k - cash. She is now planning an extension and then going to sell up again. I like the woman who bought the house , she is a successful single mum so all credit to her but it shows how London is pricing ordinary families out completely.
Bromley has changed hugely and not for the better unfortunately. It's becoming overcrowded, dirty and more like Lewisham every week ( sorry Lewisham) . But the prices are still eye watering yet the Bromley High street is run down; only The Glades is nice.
My DH earns a very good salary in town and will have to commute further now - 1hr,15 mins plus tube of 5 mins each way. And the kids have to start new schools as well plus I'm much further away from my friends. But it's worth it, otherwise we would have stayed renting for another 10 years and bought my landlord's house for him.
We need a correction in the market, it's just hideous in the South. I only am finally on the ladder because of my inlaws - we could never have saved the deposit on our own , we just couldn't save enough. They have loaned us the money so I know I'm very lucky.
This is what we have had to do in order to buy- we could never buy in London. I'm very grateful for what I have. Having rented for so long, I really really want to see significant rental reform; private landlords need proper regulation. My lanlord broke the law contractually many times and got away with it as he managed the property.
How anyone on a normal salary is affording as a first time buyer family home in London and parts of the South East like Sevenoaks, St Albans and Guildford is beyond me. I'm sure there will be many more young families like us who will leave London over the coming years if prices continue to rise.