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to take it upon myself to do the neighbours' gardens?

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morgyworgy · 26/02/2015 12:31

We have lived here for 5 years, lovely terraced period properties, we have neighbours adjoined either side.
Neighbour 1 works in the middle east and returns for a month in the summer and an additional fortnight at any other time. The rest of the time the house is empty.
Neighbour 2 I think either works away or long shifts where he sleeps over for days at a time. I think he has also moved into his gfs. We don't see him from one month to the next. In fact, a courier left a parcel here for him and he came round for it 10 weeks later once he saw the card.
As a result of this, their gardens aren't the best, neighbour 1 is pretty low maintenance and just full of litter, moss on the flags and weeds growing through.
Neighbour 2 is like a jungle. Full of litter (we're town centre) trees overgrown, sky/telephone leads come unpinned, gate broken off and left, ditto the doors to the electric cupboard thing.
Thing is, we have gone up for sale and the photo of the front of the house on the agents website is awful. You can see all the shite in it and neighbour 2 looks like an abandoned ghost house. Agent has said she can crop them out but they will see it if they drive past/view.
A big selling point of my house is the kerb appeal, it's beautiful. But then you see what surrounds it and nobody will buy.

So, aibu to go around, pick up the litter, pull up the weeds, trim some trees, fix the gate, maybe jet wash the paths and wash the windows
DH thinks I'm bonkers. Im not though am I? I just want to sell my house Hmm

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worksallhours · 27/02/2015 17:59

Just to add ... and on a slightly unrelated note.

It is extremely common to find habitation terms in both mortgage agreements and buildings insurance contracts. Unless you have a specialist agreement, you often can't just leave a property empty for months without breaking these terms.

I would suspect that your neighbours are probably voiding their own buildings insurance contracts by being regularly absent from their properties.

morethanpotatoprints · 27/02/2015 18:02

I would make it part of your sales pitch and tell potential buyers a white lie.
"Oh the gardens next door are beautiful in the summer".

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 27/02/2015 18:06

I feel a sudden urge to tidy my garden Blush If anyone did it for me I would cry with embarrassment. Then kill them. Angry

icelollycraving · 27/02/2015 18:17

Tidy,sweep up rubbish,remove junk mail hanging out of the door but don't prune anything.

AndThenISaid · 27/02/2015 18:18

Personally, I would report it to whoever is appropriate

Who the heck are you going to 'report' this to?

RedButtonhole · 28/02/2015 08:10

Who the heck are you going to 'report' this to?

Well, in my case it would be the housing association who own all the properties on my street. I'm not sure who the OP would report it to, which is why I didn't name anyone specific.

Bumbiscuits · 28/02/2015 08:18

I had the same problem once when selling. I had a stroke of luck in that there was a massive dump of snow the day my buyer viewed which hid a multitude of sins.

My neighbours were rough and had big fierce dogs, the was no way I was going to 1) ask them to tidy or 2) do it for them as I feared for my limbs

WizardOfToss · 28/02/2015 08:58

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