Visited DM and DF yesterday as they had photocopied my cvs after realizing i didnt have any sunday and i was applying for a new job as i was fed up of getting home at 1 15 am exhausted.
Dad has chemo this week for recurrent aggressive cancer.He feels awful for about a week after
and was considering stopping it and let nature take it s course.
Mum has incurable cancer too and he is redecorating to make the house more sellable when they go.
Recently he has been criticizing our home they havent been round in many yrs.If i say we are getting a new dining table he asks where from then gets sniffy if i say a more affordable shop.The same if i say im doing steak for the kids tea he wants to know what cut it is.Constant critcism eventhough we both work hard and have paid our mortgage off.WE dont have anything flash and are not motivated by this we just have 2 lovely teens and a cosy home.my DH just bought a newer car he paid cash for it.They are now going on about how small it is and hw the engine will blow up with all the miles he does!!
They spend tim with my db and ds who have nice lifestyles but dont visit me or my other ds who dont.
My dsis has gone nc for yrs with them and they seem surprised.
Should i put up with their sniggering and snobbery and accept the rudeness as its up to us where we shop or if we dont go abroad or should i say something to them eventhough they are having a hard time as Dad is mums carer really as she cant walk as far as the shops and she will be lost when he goes after 50 yrs together.
They may aswell say they are ashamed of us as we dont have well paid jobs ARRGGHH !!