I'm in early pregnancy and had my booking appointment a couple of days ago. I have been feeling a bit gross anyway, only wanting sugary things, but I had put much more weight on than I had realised (not massively noticeable physically but heading in a bad direction and of course shall be addressing the issue.) Does not help I both quit smoking and was made redundant recently, overall not feeling great about myself (I'm not depressed, just feeling a bit sorry for myself!).
On a side note, my partner said he would sleep in another room that evening, as he had blocked sinuses and the snoring was horrific. I really appreciated it, pregnancy dreams means I don't sleep as well anyway. The following night he offered again, I said 'yes please, just one more night', to which he replied 'oh good, another wank on the couch for me!'. I laughed and said 'you didn't?' and he admitted he did, watching porn.
Suffice to say, I was angry. I had spent the last couple of days feeling rubbish about myself and he thought it would be 'funny' to admit that. He then said 'oh, I'm sorry I told you'. I gave myself the whole of yesterday to calm down (I'm stupidly emotional at the moment, didn't want to start yelling and/or crying), but today it all blew up. He's just yelled at me that its not fair I'm still angry. Fair enough, however I was hoping for an actual apology e.g 'I'm sorry I did it, it was really inconsiderate to how you were feeling'. Instead he sarcastically said he was sorry for knocking one out.
Now I know that reads like I'm a bit crazy, I don't usually care about these things. However, to tell me he did it, watching porn, like it was funny, when I was feeling so crummy was hurtful. He has actually said 'sorry I did it', but only after shouting at me for being still angry about it. Just feels like an empty apology. AIBU? We'll get over it, but at the moment, I just can't stop feeling hurt.