Aibu...to feel embarassed after sending my first dirty text?

[Dalfie]

Bit of background: Me and partner have been together for just over a year and he is the only partner I have felt more comfortable with regarding sex and my body. We do not live together.

I had a dirty dream about him last night and texted him quite light heartedly that I had done so in a sleepy and dreamy haze. Not realising the percussions that he would want to know the details!

I am quite adventurous in the bedroom but have never ventured out of it into explicit texting/pictures. Decided to bite the bullet and just go for it after he asked the details. By my standards it was quite rude but texted playfully and was chuffed with myself after doing so.

He still hasn't texted back! I felt quite liberated after sending it but that feeling is slowly turning to embarrassment . What if he shows somebody, thinks I'm a dirty cow or ive put him off me? Wish I hadn't sent it now!

Anybody else had experience of this? Should I wait for a reply or text him again? Anything funny/mortifying/amazing happened to you after dirty texting?

He's probably thinking of you and (ahem) enjoying himself.

He'll love it. He wouldn't have asked if he didn't want to know.

I've just sent DP a dirty picture. He's at work so don't expect to hear from him.

Honestly, don't worry about it. He's chuffed.

DH sent me a very suggestive text about what he wanted to do to me and sent it to MIL by mistake. When he got home he asked why I hadn't replied and I had no idea what he was talking about. He was panic stricken when he realised what he had done ad we just sat waiting and wondering and laughing. TBF it wasn't filthy, more funny but very clearly about sex.

MIL texted me - very dry- sympathising with what I put up with, apologising for his immaturity and taking responsibility for how he has turned out as a product of her and FIL's parenting and saying we can only hope he grows up.
It hasn't been mentioned again

I wouldn't worry. If he is a bit ithat won't last and it won't put him off you. It isn't going to be an issue and he is probably flattered. Just make a joke if he seems awkward.

Lulujakey that made me chuckle. i can imagine my dm doing the same. She thought all men were beasts in the field (her words) and women just had to put up with it.

I don't think you've got any reason to feel embarrassed, it's just a bit of fun.

If you trust him enough to send them to him you mist trust him enough not to show anyone else.

DH and I do similar things but ours are just a bit naughty, not really full on explicit.

Just make sure you don't send any to the wrong person by accident.

I know what you mean. He's probably enjoyed the text and is still...thinking...about his reply.

Dh and I tried to sext once and ended up pretending to be Ninja Turtles. It could be worse.

I'm sure it will be fine op. Maybe he's not had a chance to respond.

My DP once send a dirty message meant for me to my dad!! my dad replied saying I hope this was meant for my daughter DP nearly died and my dad slagged him for ages!!

Lulu I have most definitely sent it to him, I did just check though incase! I might just hide my phone for a few hours to stop me fretting about it...hopefully with any luck I'll have a good response waiting later. The things we do for men eh!

Being very nosey now, any reply OP ?

Me and my dp dont live together. We're always sending dirty texts, saying what we'll do to each other when we see each other.......Roll on Monday afternoon...
As others have said... He's probably turned on and getting friendly with himself.