current bf "is it the biggest you've had" me "*giggle* god no"

[egokillerbitch]

So that conversation happened last night, I didn't mean to be offensive but it pretty much killed the mood and he changed his mind and went back to his to sleep.

Aibu that you shouldn't ask a question if you not ready for the answer? Stupid question anyway, he's being quiet on WhatsApp today..

I've only had one guy ask. He was fairly large of cock and vanishingly minuscule of talent in giving pleasure with it. So many guys seem to think "big cock, job done!" and deliver a thoroughly moribund performance in the sack. I think I said "it's a poor workman who blames his tools..". It didn't last.

Is his name Justin OP?

Well, dh has 12 inches but he doesn't use it as a rule.

Hahaha. Was asked similar by a new guy recently also- 36 years old! Unfortunately the effect it had was for me to start mentally flicking through pictures of ex-lovers' penises- not sure that was what he intended!

Think I mumbled something about it being a very nice cock. Which it is to be fair. I told him later that it was a really weird thing to put me on the spot about!

One day - hee her 'it is a very nice cock!'

There is a fairly basic rule in communication that you never ask a question that invites a lie.

Lucy I do try to be polite at all times :-)

I could never remember. Afaicr

Gosh. When I used to sleep with people who were not DH I used to do an appreciative gasp at the big reveal every time, just to be nice. I wouldn't want people to be honest about how I looked naked. However I wouldn't ask either.

I don't gasp every time now, that would get annoying.

What is it with the lack of awareness men with very small willies seem to have? I've always been asked by men who are lacking in that department.

I've been spoiled with some very large ones in the past and they guys never seemed to fish for compliments (maybe it was because I always offered them though.)

That'll teach him to ask, won't it! Dozy bloke.
And yes, I'd agree with the point made that the bigger it is, the less hard they try, usually.
Most accomplished lovers I had were both teeny of dick. Honestly, pinky sized in one case!

I've got to speak up in favour of the big boys a little bit here. I've never had any of them who tried less hard or got lazy. Is this a common thing?

ThumbWitch lol @ "teeny of dick".