Btw, have you all seen the parallel HPC thread that has been created to discuss this thread? (there were 2, no less, but have since been merged)
www.housepricecrash.co.uk/forum/index.php?/topic/203267-l200k-studio-on-a-l20k-salary-mumsnet-gold-merged/
I won't discuss its content (except to say I actually agree with a lot of it). I just wanted to ask - can you believe how bizarrely sexist some of the posters are? It's rather like they're parodying themselves, yet alas I don't think they are.
Even the milder ones talk about their wives as if they are small children they need to steer in the direction of logic and common sense. 'Now honey, I know your pretty head gets confused by complicated man-science like early repayment charges and amortization tables, so I've broken it all down into really simple language and drawn pretty illustrations next to each point in pink crayon... now do you see?'. How do you think the wives put up with it?
Then there are the ones who just assume all women are some sort of strange cross between Barbara Stanwyck and Waynetta: either out for taking their husbands money in the divorce courts or the state's money by popping out fatherless babies. Don't they know we can earn our own money now? I mean, we can even drive.
And then there are the posters who are so breathtakingly misogynist, you have to wonder if they have ever actually spoken to a real live woman in the 21st century (for whose company they haven't paid). I quote:
Typical female "logic".
You say that because you're a man. Using my special woman-only calculator....
Its only a short hop to "Unreasonable behaviour" on the divorce papers.
Are the mse vi property bullys on there pretending to be women? (The assumption being, of course, that no one on the money saving expert forums could actually be a woman - no all we worry about is marrying the rich men or raising the organic babies and or colour-matching our hair tones with our living room accessories)
Because all their husbands are EAs and bankers? (women ... jobs ... can't compute ...)
Anyway, since they're discussing us, thought we could briefly turn the spotlight on them (I'm kind of intrigued to see how the more sexist ones will react - I expect say I need to lighten up and get a sense of humour? because casual sexism, always way hilarious). Although I don't understand why it has to be 'us' and 'them'. Whatever the pros and cons of the HPC argument, they really undermine themselves sometimes with this neanderthal schtick
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