Indeed SabrinaMulholland, and some western governments were quick to hail the overthrow of an unpopular but nevertheless elected government in Ukraine by groups including Right Sector. (Note insignia).
'But you could only say that if they as individuals did something properly culpable mathanxiety. Surely you can't hold them responsible purely as a collective thing? Where would your aunt fit in that?'
Molio, my German aunt was a nurse and arrived in Ireland with a group of German refugee children right after the war. She grew up in Dusseldorf, joined the Bund Deutscher Mädel, and thought Hitler was what Germany needed. During the war she completed her nursing studies and started work in a hospital.
Her brothers came home on leave from their service from time to time, first from France and then from the east. They were in uniform from at least 1940 to the bitter end in 1945, suffering the odd injury, getting patched up and returning. Despite hearing from them some of what war entailed, she and her family had hoped for German victory. Once final defeat came and the full scale of the horrors was revealed, she did a lot of soul searching and accepted the proposition that those who contributed were responsible, herself included, as an adult German citizen. She felt that the calamity that befell Germany as well as the horrors visited upon the rest of Europe were the responsibility of her generation and her parents' generation, and much as she loved her family and uncomfortable though it made her feel, that included herself and her own parents and her brothers and their friends and comrades. For her, it wasn't a matter of 'the Germans' in the abstract waging war.
She was also honest enough to acknowledge that if Germany had won, she would not have done the soul searching or felt the guilt she felt. I had a lot of respect for my aunt and her honesty. I also share her feeling that Germans as 'individuals that made up a collective entity' were responsible.
I think the only complicated psychology here is the idea that it is important to emphasise the tiny examples of goodness that we know of. I think doing so paints a far rosier picture of what went on, and I wonder why anyone feels the need to do this while at the same time fulminating against the bombing of Dresden.
Six million Jews that we know were killed in camps received no help from anybody, and there were maybe two million more murdered in the USSR in cities, towns and villages. A tiny few by comparison, a drop in the ocean, were saved. The stories are pitifully few and far between, not 'everywhere'.
I see no point in kidding ourselves that there were people of good will around every corner. It only reinforces the false idea that 'the Nazis' were a 'regime' of 'other people'.