Aibu to be angry with ex?

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Rosesarentalwaysred · 10/02/2015 23:23

My ex left me two years ago to be with ow it's been a long struggle for me and dd both emotionally and financially I have Struggled.
I've now met a lovely man who I have been seeing for 6months I haven't introduced dd to him yet as I don't want to rush things.

Anyway ex has now found out that I am seeing someone as I let it slip whilst having an argument with him As he was suppose to have dd last week but cancelled at the last minute which resulted in me having to cancel my plans he is now saying that he will do everything in his power to Ruin my relationship i am absolutely seething right now that I feel like calling his gf and telling her that he is cheating on her as the other women sent me pictures and messages between them I know thatskes me just as bad as him but what right does he have to do this to me?

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CuddlesfromChickens · 10/02/2015 23:26

He has no right. Don't let him play you.

Can someone else sit for you (parents/friend)?

In the meantime don't let him know you are annoyed, don't tell him anything else about your life.

CuddlesfromChickens · 10/02/2015 23:27

Oh and don't engage with his girlfriend - always always keep the moral high ground.

NetballHoop · 10/02/2015 23:32

You have evry right to have your own life and he has no right to control it. As Cuddles says, keep the moral high ground but do keep notes of everything.

Yambabe · 10/02/2015 23:35

Unless you give it to him, he has nothing in his power to ruin your relationship.

I know it's hard, but ignore and detatch.

Think about it, what can he actually DO?

By all means have a laugh with your new BF about it but in the meantime continue to live your life the way you want and take your new relationship at the pace you are happy with. Have a quite smirk to yourself that the best revenge you can have on him is him seeing that you have a good life and he has no part to play in that and no way to spoil it.

Yambabe · 10/02/2015 23:36

*quiet not quite

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Rosesarentalwaysred · 10/02/2015 23:46

I couldn't lower myself to either of their levels as much as I might want to I've come to far to go back but what gives him the right?

He doesn't have dd stay over with him as they live in a room in a shared house so theirs no room for her to stay Over so Ive had to deal with her on my own while he gets to know his gf and do as he pleases.

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MrsTerryPratchett · 11/02/2015 00:59

Doesn't it give you a warn glow to know that after his cheating and leaving you, he obviously isn't over you? Poor, sad little man.

Best revenge is to live well.

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