Here's the story.
DS1 is 13, DS2 9, DS3 6 and DD 10 months. We have a 4 bed house.
DS3 has autism and needs his own bedroom, somewhere to get away from everything when he needs to and calm down when things get too much for him.
DS2 is great and doesn't mind sharing his room at all but DS1 is a few days away from being 13, is going through puberty and spending a lot of time in his room reading and playing xbox (when its his turn) etc.
He really wants his privacy.
He knows the situation of course and has agreed to share with DS2 (who is so loud and restless and has mild ADD) but I'm wondering if I can put it off for another year?
DD is still in with us, we are still going through the "putting the soother back in ten times a night" phase so we won't be moving her for a while yet.
She always has someone with her until she falls asleep and doesn't really like being alone (my fault but I really don't mind, she is my last baby and I know it will only last a year or two)
So I'm thinking of keeping DD in with us until she is 2 and ready for a bed and her own room and then we can make a big deal of it and she will understand what's going on.
DH doesn't mind either (we both love her in with us tbh and she sleeps through any "quiet cuddle time" we may have ) so what do you think?
Should I just get it over with and put DS1 and DS2 in together? Would I be making things worse by putting it off or will it all go the way I have planned it in my (probably too) optimistic head?
I'd appreciate any opinions.
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To keep baby in our bedroom for another year?
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FixerUpperUp · 08/02/2015 10:13
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