To ask what you do after you LTB?

[pinkandbkuesky]

Stupid question I know. But what do you actually do?

Can you stop him contacting you?

Can you keep him away from the children?

Can you just walk out, with the children, and not ever contact him again? I'm guessing not.

Id guess not too. He would have rights if they are his. Is there a reason you wouldnt want him near your children?

Gosh, so many but unfortunately none that would stand up in a court of law.

Sadly, Sheryl Sandberg said a very true thing when she said the most important decision you make is choosing the father of your children.

You can stop him being your husband, and you can even stop him contacting you, but you can't stop him being the father of your children.

I know that now. which is why I don't think I can ever leave but sometimes, I just can't stand the thought of another eighteen years like this.