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To be angry at Colleen McCullough's obituary

82 replies

drudgetrudy · 31/01/2015 10:48

"Plain of feature and certainly overweight"-for a respected novelist and neuroscientist-Grrr!

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GokTwo · 31/01/2015 10:50

Wow, that's disgusting!!!! What a sexist, nasty insult.

ChoochiWoo · 31/01/2015 10:50

Shock Shock Shock whos written that?

tarashill · 31/01/2015 10:51

That's awful, how will her family feel reading that. I would certainly complain.

GraysAnalogy · 31/01/2015 10:51

Absolutely disgusting

tobysmum77 · 31/01/2015 10:52

and I assume the deceased isn't male ...

MardyBra · 31/01/2015 10:52

Yanbu. But I didn't know she was a scientist. Confused

PtolemysNeedle · 31/01/2015 11:06

You need to put it in context before anyone can really judge.

GraysAnalogy · 31/01/2015 11:11

What context can make that any better?

StillStayingClassySanDiego · 31/01/2015 11:12

Where is this written?

CaptainAnkles · 31/01/2015 11:15

That is not even vaguely relevant in a list of someone's achievements in life. How rude.

QueenBean · 31/01/2015 11:20

Awful. Disgusting.

WhisperedWords · 31/01/2015 11:21

www.theaustralian.com.au/arts/the-thorn-birds-author-colleen-mccullough-dies-on-norfolk-island/story-e6frg8n6-1227201243185?nk=70ac6eb40011ff2fdeb370d0b188849b

Those lines still render me incredulous when I read them - it's just incomprehensible that it was a) written b) not picked up in editing. Though I found the rest of the obituary very informative.

StillStayingClassySanDiego · 31/01/2015 11:22

When you read the piece in the Guardian, thanks Clarty for the link, it really does come over as a misogynistic slapdown for Colleen.

HeadingHome · 31/01/2015 11:43

I found this deeply upsetting.

KinkyDorito · 31/01/2015 11:50

Sad Sad Sad

Wantsunshine · 31/01/2015 11:53

That is shocking. Really don't know what to comment.

MomOfTwoGirls2 · 31/01/2015 12:39

Well, it was a very stupid opening. And reflects on the writer rather than on his subject. But the rest of it was interesting and informative. She sounds an amazing lady.

ChoochiWoo · 31/01/2015 12:51

is it going to be ammended though.

CultureSucksDownWords · 31/01/2015 12:57

I'm completely taken aback by that article and the comparisons to the obits for male authors. It's actually insane that this kind of crap is still happening. The fact that the rest of the article is interesting doesn't excuse the appalling opening sentences.

hopefulpuffin · 31/01/2015 13:17

I was surprised by the descriptions in the Australian's obit but then I read this in the Washington Post, “Get out and get a job as a mangle hand in a laundry,” she recalled her father telling her. “That’s all you’re good for — you’ll never get a husband, you’re too big and fat and ugly.”

So I wonder if the description was part of an ongoing self-deprecating joke she'd talk about on the Australian's part? Did she often describe herself that way? When she described her 8000 sq ft house as big like she was?

Not that it should have been the lead paragraph and the Guardian's commentary was on the mark.

I do remember reading The Thorn Birds as a young teen. I think I read it soon after Judy Bloom's Forever.

Those were good days.

May she RIP.

SaucyJack · 31/01/2015 13:24

Surely you're just perpetuating the idea that women should be valued primarily for their looks if you get offended by a plain, overweight woman being described as a plain, overweight woman, non?

There is more to life than being pretty.

drudgetrudy · 31/01/2015 13:25

This made me really angry and also saddened that despite all her achievements the first thing that was mentioned was her appearance.
The word NEVERTHELESS really got to me-as if it was surprising that an overweight woman could be intelligent and witty.
Very sexist-you don't read comments that Churchill was a great leader despite being overweight.

Not that its relevant but the photo of her when she was younger shows someone with an attractive, strong, pleasant face anyway.
Just not meeting the approval of the gaze of the person writing this nasty article (dim of wit and devoid of sensibility!).

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MessyRedHair · 31/01/2015 13:26

That's awful!!!

betweenmarchandmay · 31/01/2015 13:27

Gosh. I'm shocked. When did she pass away?

Her Masters of Rome series is brilliant, absolutely brilliant.