I've posted before about my job, think the thread got deleted. Basically it is a tiny family company with only me working for it in the office (I am not family). To cut it short or I would be here all day typing this, I don't think where the office is is even legal to work in, lots of things are missing from files of other workers, they could be illegal. I get bullied by one of the bosses. She is always interfering in my work and is clueless about it herself. She is only a boss because of her relationship to the main boss.
Example - phone rings and I answer and ask their name and they are calling about a job opening. Boss is at side of me asking where are they from, who is it, what do they want. I'm on the phone so can't answer her! Then she says oh give it here, and takes the phone from me without letting me finish the call myself which I am more than capable of. An email might come and she asks who from, I say X. Then she will say oh Y? No it's X. 10 min later she wil ask what happened to that email from Y? Y never emailed, it was X and I already sorted it out like I told her before! She doesnt work in the office or for the company at all really, just pops in to interfere
She also always lies constantly. I am sick of her bullshit lies. Like oh there is a job with X amount of people starting on Monday. We have never had a job that large. I phone the other boss and ask about it and he has no idea what I am talking about
I took a day off sick and when I come back I am told by her that her and other boss are very angry at me and it's not acceptable. Then I hear her on the phone to the other boss and him saying that he is pissed off with me. They are very casual swearers which I am not, and so when I do anything wrong their unhappy response always has a lot of swearing in it - I don't really do anything wrong though. They will ask why isn't X done but they never told me to do it or told me that it existed and I phone the boss every morning asking if anything specific needs doing
I don't want to go into too much detail because it could out me, but I am fed up of being lied to and fed up of her interfering that distracts me from work. Sometimes she will just come and sit next to me and watch me in silence which is very off putting and uncomfortable. I have social anxiety and feel that I can't say no when she asks me to do things - like send personal emails from her account or come back to work for an hour in the evening when it isn't needed
She has also lied about herself and her family having certain very bad illnesses and will come and make fake phonecalls next to me in the office about her personal problems. There is never anybody on the other end of the phone, she stages them which must be for attention as I can't understand why else she would do it sitting right next to me for no reason. Also the office was closed during the holidays. I am an employee and was not paid for it. I think I was meant to be? But they deny it and I darent challenge it
I've also recently been diagnosed with depression and I feel that a big factor is because of this job. I dread going to bed at night because I know I'll have to wake up to come to work to be lied to and complained at again. I would feel very uncomfortable telling her I want to leave, though she always threatens me with it, she will never find anyone else who puts up with this like I have done. I don't even have a contract so won't have to give notice will I? Can I just leave on Friday and send a letter of resignation and not have to see her again? I know I will chicken out if I say it on the phone or to her face
My DP has a decent job and the money from my job is just extra, it isn't needed as such. I would look for another job straight away but I really can't stand to work another week here. AIBU to quit on Friday?