To think commenting on unborn babies is cruel?

[GlitzAndGigglesx]

My sisters two faced friend has been commenting on how my twins will look. My dp has full lips and an underbite so his bottom lip sticks out a bit. My sister said this bitch woman was sat calling my dp "fucking awful looking" and saying the twins will be ugly with lips like this and pulling her bottom lip out and squashing it. I was fuming when I found out and want to confront her this will no doubt lead to more bitching about my family. When she found out I was pregnant she said it was unfair because she had been trying for longer and because I work pt I'm never with my dd apparently. She has also said behind my back of course how she hates my dd's name. Fine not everyone will like every name they hear but surely you shouldn't comment on how nice it is if you think the opposite. She's pregnant herself and I wouldn't dream of commenting on the appearance of her baby. Surely people should be supportive of pregnant women or is that just a minority of us? She's always fake and acts nice when she sees me or dp but I now know to keep my distance. My sister said she didn't want to say anything back with kids around but I'm sure a lot worse has been said about us

kissmethere she's already received a bruisin a handful of times recentl from various people because she can't keep her nasty trap shut. I used to feel sorry for her thinking she was probably just lonely but now I see why!

I would tell your sister you dont wanna hear anything about this vile woman anymore. Shes obviously projecting a lot of her own failures onto others.

Ignore her and avoid her. It doesn't matter if she slags you off for that - it sounds like she's happy to slag you off whatever you do or don't do, so why put up with her?

And tell your sister that it's up to her if she wants to keep seeing this 'friend', but not to bother repeating what she says because you just don't care what someone like that syas, thinks, or does. She's not worth the attention.

Why would you waste a second on being bothered what a nasty ignorant woman like her would say? She is unhappy. Happy people don't slang off or insult other people. Your sister sounds nasty too for bothering with telling you. You don't HAVE to bother with the woman just because you see her at school. It isn't compulsory to speak to her. Blank her!

there is nothing so ugly as a mean spirited person. And she sounds really really mean. Leave her to her petty venom.

She is unreasonable but given your sister tells you this and slags people off behind their back I would say they are probably more similar then you'd like to believe.

Tell your sister you aren't interested in such a maggots POV, cut her off every time she tries to bitch and shit stir about this unpleasant person. Then just ignore the woman, say nothing at all and look through her or say hello and goodbye and dismiss her when she tries for more. The latter will really irritate someone who likes to put people down just as cutting your sister off will upset people aka her who also like to see others upset.

Your sister sounds like one of those annoying sorts who just LOVES stirring up a bit of drama. She didn't have to repeat one word of that nasty gossip, but I bet she couldn't help herself.

I read your post and all I could hear was DRAMA.

Not only that, but completely unnecessary fabricated drama. Is her life empty by any chance?

Have you both considered getting a hobby instead of this purile wank?

Seriously Glitz, you sound like Jeremy Kyle fodder.

Keema I have plenty of hobbies thanks which is why I've ignored her many times but this commen got to me. Not sure exactly how that makes me "Jeremy Kyle fodder"

Because it's a pretty pathetic overreaction to some bitchy gossip spread by your sister.

Generally people who thrive on this kind of "ooooh did you hear what she said" kind of stuff don't have much else to focus on, so unimportant stuff like this hearsay gets blown up into fabricated knicker twisting drama.

Next she'll have said something mean on Facebook.

All a bit JK.

If one of my sister's 'friends' made comments like this about my husband I'd be fuming too Glitz. It's insulting and unnecessary and I think your sister did the right thing to tell you if you have to see this woman and supposedly be nice to her. Ignore other posters who say you're overdramatising this. She's been offensive and you are allowed to be offended.