My sister hasn't sent so much as a text, let alone a card or present. (yes we normally do presents for birthdays ).
I got one or two Facebook messages, including my niece and cousin after 9pm.
On the other hand my lovely work colleagues clubbed together and bought me a lovely bunch of flowers. As they said "at least you have a work family".
I suppose I'm most hurt that I haven't heard from my sister at all.
My mother is in a care home and suffers from dementia so wouldn't be able to remember.