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how weird is it to talk about our wedding....

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petitchouxfleur · 19/01/2015 20:10

When we're not even engaged?

My bf and I often make (half joking) comments to each other about what sort of wedding we'd have....food...colour scheme, if I'd have a big meringue dress, and so on. The other day having watched one of those first dance videos on YouTube we were laughing over that, and whether we'd do serious, funny, or half and half for our first dance and to what music etc.

I didn't see anything wrong with it, but in speaking to the friend who sent me the link to the video I mentioned what we'd been saying, and she did a proper cats bum face and said that was a bit odd, especially as my bf is quite anti marriage (he was when we first met as had just gone through a bad divorce, not do much now) and why discuss something that might never happen?...

So, is she bu or am I?!

OP posts:
Seff · 20/01/2015 14:08

DH and I discuss hypothetical wedding ideas, and we're already married! And half the ideas aren't things we'd actually do even if we weren't married. Just a bit of fun! In fact, it's much more fun than actual wedding planning.

TheListingAttic · 20/01/2015 15:16

This is how DH and I got 'engaged'. It started with jokey conversations about 'when we get married', then we had a few that were a bit more realistic, mixed in with the jokey ones - and then one of the more serious ones was about when we'd get married - and we decided the next summer and got on with it. Bosh.

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