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To buy my own knives?

31 replies

Elisheva · 18/01/2015 20:35

Ridiculous, unimportant situation.
For Christmas I asked in laws for some kitchen knives. My knives are cheap and not very good, and I would really like a couple of nice, good quality ones.
No problem said in laws.
On Christmas Day I had lovely presents from in laws, but no knives. Apparently MIL had remembered that it is bad luck to give knives as a present. They said that they would still buy me knives and I could just have them in the new year.
I still have no knives. The knives have not been mentioned again. What do I do? I'm more than happy to buy my own knives but then if they buy some I'll have two lots, and it would be a waste of money. I can't ask if they are going to buy me knives because that would be rude.
If I say 'I bought my own knives' so you don't need to worry' that also seems rude. How can I resolve this so I end up with un offended in laws and nice knives?

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LuisSuarezTeeth · 20/01/2015 22:33

Buy your own and keep them super sharp.

No angst necessary Smile

YellowBellow · 20/01/2015 22:42

Don't buy your own knives. It's insane. Flagrant disregard for kismet and karma. Just wait until they are finally gifted to you, if you know what's good for you

cozietoesie · 20/01/2015 23:32

There are far more superstitions associated with receiving a knife as a gift than with buying one, Yellow. As lest by buying one or two the OP would be avoiding the next umpty years of risking having her fingers savaged by a flimsy, blunt knife skittering unexpectedly off a carrot.

cozietoesie · 20/01/2015 23:33

*At least

traviata · 21/01/2015 00:15
  1. buy your own knives
  2. tell ILs immediately so they can get something else or return the third-rate knives they already bought.
SummerHouse · 23/01/2015 21:23

A rabbit called knives Grin.

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