... in the middle of changing her at a children's centre weigh in?
I turned up, had to wake sleepy baby who turned into screamy baby, and whilst I was wrestling my octopus' baby's limbs out of her shackles sleepsuit the HV said 'Do you want to pick her up and cuddle her?' I just said 'No I'll cuddle her in a minute, let's just get her weighed!'
But ever since I have been thinking should I have?!
WIBU? Was it a pointed suggestion from HV and I have been neglecting her?! If I picked her up to cuddle her every time she screamed mid change she'd never have a clean nappy on! I do lean over and kiss her, and did earlier iirc.