DH lost his job, we found out xmas day (city link) and Wednesday was his last day.
I have taken care of everything, housework, washing, cooking, both kids everything at home have hosted people round over new year and done everything to make sure he has been ok..
I did his CV and have applied for nearly 50 jobs for him, sent his CV to every company to match his experience.
He has done nothing but mope about the house, occasionally having a few tears.. Shouting at the kids whenever they dare go near him, ignored me when I've asked a question and done nothing to help me just sat and drank beer
New year we went to a friends house and he just left me with the kids, sat with the friends and didn't bother asking if i wanted a break.
Yesterday he refused to get out of bed, i ended up taking the kids to my mums as i was ready to flip out.
I know i am being unreasonable in being pissed off with him, he must feel very stressed and upset about losing his job. But i can't help feelong he is so selfish and ungrateful, i am stressed too!!
Give me a kick up the bum to be more compassionate please.