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To use my steam cleaner at 10pm on NYE

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Hurr1cane · 31/12/2014 22:26

On a street full of house parties and fireworks.

I'll give a backstory. There is a man who lives next door with his wife, they're in their 90s if that is relevant for what was acceptable back in the day?, we are terraced and the walls are thin, but we are very quiet neighbours, never any parties and usually upstairs by 8pm with DS in bed watching his iPad with his headphones and me sat outside his door on night watch (he has ASC as well as other disabilities)

Today is NYE and my turn with DS, me and his dad take it in turns to go out, DP is at work.

There are loads of house parties on the street, fireworks going off. Drunken arguments etc, the same as every year.

So I decide that because me and DS won't be able to sleep anyway, we will stay up eating takeaway pizza and see midnight in while watching rubbish kids films and I MN.

DS inevitably spills crumbs and juice everywhere, so I think instead of waiting till the morning (when I'm tired from no sleep) I'll sweep up and steam the floors now.

Suddenly there's a knock at the door, which I open on the chain at first because it's 10pm. It's the man next door.

Man: "you're hoovering"

Me: I'm not its a steam cleaner, why can you hear it?"

Man: "no I saw you through the window, it's not an appropriate time for that."

Me: it only makes the same amount of noise as an iron would... I've finished now anyway.

Man: well you shouldn't be cleaning at this time, it could disturb us (disclaimer, the house is usually silent after 7:30 while I pray that DS might close his eyes so there's never any cleaning noise)

Me: but... There's house parties everywhere...

Him: it's New Year's Eve. Cleaning after 9pm is antisocial.

Me: ok I won't do it again... Then I promptly shut the curtains.

Really? Is it really antisocial to steam the floors at 10pm when almost every other house on the street has music and fireworks blasting? Never mind the noise we can hear from the town centre?

OP posts:
ElizabethHoover · 31/12/2014 22:53

he is old. Thats part of it. Be kind!

Hurr1cane · 31/12/2014 22:53

Sonja I have the H20 X5 and I'm in love with it.

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BlessedAndGr8fulNoInLaws4Xmas · 31/12/2014 22:56

OP that's hilarious!

Is he the "Cleaning Police" ?

joanne1947 · 31/12/2014 22:56

I really like the loud arguing neighbours, they are always friendly and nice to me. I have the same situation, our neighbours sometimes have a party in their garden, my solution is to join them. It can lead to interesting conversations, like when my neighbour said a friend had died, I said that I did not know her, the reply was "you and her shared a full bottle of gin one evening" I went to her funeral :-)

Neverknowingly · 31/12/2014 22:59

Eh?! I have the robovac going in the family room and the robomop in the kitchen. Is that ok because I'm just ignoring them and watching Graham Norton?

if I didn't have the bots then I would have the x5 out and I may in fact see the new year in with a celebratory upholstery clean of the sofa arms. Go me!

Yanbu!

Hurr1cane · 31/12/2014 23:00

Joanne they don't make noise all the time so I figure the odd party is good for the soul. I don't have any though. I couldn't be arsed cleaning up after them Grin

RE: he's old and that's part of it? Is it? Most older people I meet are lovely to me and DS, and he attracts a lot because he calls them all grandma and has massive blue eyes that he stares at them with till they talk to him and then ignores them with determination.

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SorchaN · 01/01/2015 03:52

Yeah, why does he only shout at the woman who lives alone? You're way more tolerant of his rudeness than I would be!

ChippingInLovesChristmasLights · 01/01/2015 05:02

He's bonkers!! But he's very old and very harmless, just ignore him.

My neighbour is like Jeckyl & Hyde. All 'come in for a drink' one minute ( when his wife is working Hmm) and all ranty the next. He's late 60's, not that it matters. One night last week (sandwiched between two nights of come in for a drink

ChippingInLovesChristmasLights · 01/01/2015 05:03

I'm not using a washing machine Kate, ever... Silly ipad. Late!!

BathshebaDarkstone · 01/01/2015 05:09

YANBU. He's a prat. Xmas Smile

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