to ignore sons absent father after 13 years

[jemima39]

my 13 year olds absent father has got in touch, called me all sorts of names (?) and tells me he is taking me to court as I'm evil for not letting me see his son, he has never been interested, never been involved, no support, no recognition of birthdays, christmas etc, I doubt he could tell me my sons full name or his date of birth to be honest. We were never in a relationship, I'm with a wonderful man who my son calls Dad, (he knows he is his stepdad) we have two more children and have a lovely stable home life. I dont think he has a leg to stand on, should I continue to ignore him?

26point2, don't know where that extra 0 came from!

I think you did the right thing asking him now ignore.

I doubt he will take it further but at least when your DS grows up he was given the option.

Sounds like he has an ulterior motive. Has he got a new girlfriend that he's trying to impress by pretending he does everything to see his son, and paint you as the bad guy? Just start making noises about thirteen years of backpay for child support and he'll disappear again.