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To not think iwbu to refuse to leave a PUBLIC park for this family??

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FireOnTheWater · 28/12/2014 15:52

Christmas Day teens opened their xbox/phones and disappeared to their rooms leaving DP and I bored alone downstairs. We decided to go for a quick drive to the mier, take Christmassy pics of swans etc before dinner.

We got there about 10am. Planned to stay for a couple of hours. It was quiet, romantic and more Christmassy to me than sat at home watching tv.

10 minutes after we got there a family pulled up next to our car. The driver (dad?) got out and walked over to us. Rest of family stayed in car. He was lovely at first, said hello, asked if we were having a nice christmas and then told us there was another nice spot to photograph the birds further up the road Confused. I said we were not intending to stay out long so we'd stay there but thanks all the same. Then he started saying about how his family had visited the mier on Christmas Day last year and they were the only ones there and his wife and kids were looking forward yo having the place to themselves again. I reminded him that it was a public park and we were not staying long anyway. Anyway to cut long story short, he then tried reasoning with DP, telling him I was being unreasonable and ruining his family's day out and that since they don't celebrate christmas it was "surely" not unreasonable to expect one day in the year that they could have the park to themselves!!! The most annoying bit about it was that DP started agreeing with him and made me out to be an awkward cow just for the sake of it.

As I say this was a few days ago now but I'm still so angry. Name change as mIL knows me screen name and this would be right up her street, me "straying" on Christmas Day ffs.

OP posts:
Salmotrutta · 29/12/2014 08:33

Oops!

Don't think the emoticons showed up properly... Blush

londonrach · 29/12/2014 08:36

How can you catch ducks, and swans. Sorry but you never be able to catch them ever! I speak as someone who grow up surrounded by them.

Easterchuck · 29/12/2014 10:11

I'm fascinated by this thread.
Op definitely NBU but is the consensus that the man was really going to steal a swan to eat?

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