So on Christmas Eve I did not sit down to watch tv. Spent it doing prep for Christmas Day, church etc. Christmas Day we always do traditional stuff like board games with dc etc so no Tv during the day. All fine as we were sky plussing stuff. Although dh told me that 2 of my programs classed so he recorded only one. I went to bed early Christmas Day as I was shatterred. Yesterday dh spent the whole evening watching tv he wanted. Not bothered as has other stuff to do. Anyway he went to bed early as tired and I was up with older dc. They wanted to watch something but couldn't as dh has 2 of his programs on record. So he knew damn well 2 programs could be recorded but didn't want to as he wanted to hog tv again. Now it is no biggy as I can can watch it on catch up but I am pissed off of the way he lords it over tv. He has planned his viewing for the whole evening again.
Incidently me and the dc spent a lovely afternoon playing family computer games using tv but again it had to be switched off at 5 so he could have tv. It wasn't a problem for me as I had to go out but it is just his attitude.
It is almost like he is thinking that as I work I paid for it.
aibu