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Was I being unreasonable to not let him in?

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Blackout234 · 26/12/2014 23:27

Hi everyone, I've not had a chance to post this yet so here we are!
4 months ago me and dp adopted a cat called riley from the rspca. After we adopted him (About a week after) a lady from the rspca called to ask how riley was settling in, I said everything was cushy and he was fine and i never heard another word from the rspca... Until last week. It was the 20th of Dec (6 days ago) and I was literally heading out of the door. There was a knock on the door and it was someone from the RSPCA centre riley had come from. I asked what was going on (thinking they were going to ask for a donation of some kind due to the high level of animals who come in to the rspca as unwanted pets just after xmas) and the man said to me "Im John smith from the RSPCA centre in x city, You're miss blackout, arent you? You adopted riley in september? i'd like to come in and see him" (John smith=fake name) I apologised and said i Had to go out there and then.He attempted to stop me (Stood in my way) and kept insisting he wanted to see riley. I told him to f--K off eventually and slammed the door on him(then left via the back door) I Got home to a note posted through the door saying "Miss blackout, it is customary that we see all pets adopted out to make sure they aren't being harmed i will be back at x time on the 5th of January".... wibu to not let him in and would i be unreasonable if I refused the visit?
bit more background
I've never heard of this and was told at the time of adoption that after the initial home visit to check out the house there'd be no more visits. we had the home visit (BEFORE Adopting riley) and all was fine, I know this would have been confirmed and put on the system as youre not allowed to adopt without the home visit.
I called my sister, fil and mum (theyve all adopted pets from the same centre) and they said they never had any visits from the rspca.
also in case youre wondering there are no concerns over the welfare of riley, The guy just said it was customary and I HAD to let him in.

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JenniferGovernment · 29/12/2014 10:48

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londonrach · 29/12/2014 10:52

Shocked!

Idiotdh · 29/12/2014 11:04

It's possible they do spot checks to check all is well.
However if you feel threatened I would ask for female officer or verification from office first.

Eve · 29/12/2014 11:05

450 officers ? Maybe if they hadn't spent £22.5m on private prosecutions , the majority failing , they wouldn't have had to resort to obtaining an overdraft for 1st time in history .

RSPCA is too focused on extreme animal rights now rather than animal protection & rescue.

Dipankrispaneven · 29/12/2014 12:34

Did you get receipts for the fees you paid? If I were you I would check that against the other information to make sure you weren't charged twice for anything.

Also check your paperwork generally to see whether there is anything in there about expecting to make follow up visits.

ohdearitshappeningtome · 29/12/2014 14:16

It's fine to have follow ups im sure the op would welcome a follow up! But it should be on system that she's due one/had one!

But

She shouldn't be intimidated at her own front door by anyone

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