Name changed for this.
A few weeks back a school mum posted a comment saying a mum who had left the school with her child was on facebook insulting our children calling them thick, slow and "retards" I commeted on the post saying that as a adult she should be ashamed of herself saying such horrible things about 5 year old children, and that she must have a "tit for a brain" I know it wasn't my finest moment, but I was a little perplexed and miffed that a woman who Ive never spoken to, don't know anything about, would call my child and his classroom friends these sort of names.
The school and her kids new school had to get involved, and she was told told to remove the post as parents from BOTH schools weren't happy that someone could say these things about innocent 5 year old children.
Now I'm always calling people tits, 
it was just a friendly swear word growing up said by my mum and gran... And it's just sort of been passed on. Say dh dropped something I'd say, oh what a tit you are, however Ive come to realise I need to stop saying this as it could be misconstrued with me slatting breastfeeding ? (Can it?)
I made one comment out of 173 comments, calling her all sorts, but I'm the only one to have called her a "tit" because I've mentioned the word "tit" she has publicly named and shamed me on breastfeeding websites, named me and linked me on her facebook wall, saying if I have a issue with her then I need to say it to her face, and not hide behind a restrictive facebook account, I have publicly vilified her, as I was having digs at her breastfeeding choice.
Now I didn't know she breastfed, I didnt even know she had another child. Don't know the girl, have never spoken to the girl. My comment was a miffed comment about her calling my child/children vile names. It was in absolute no way derogatory to breastfeeding.
It has turned out she is and I quote "some hitler on BF" apparently anyone who dosent BF till the age of 5, feeds their child chicken nuggets and gives them diluting juice" are toxic parents.
Im just unsure as to what to do, I have had 33 text messages and 87!!! Facebook messages from different people (most I don't know) calling me, (in the last 10 hours) or saying she and another 2 people are bringing my past into it (my son was in a terrible accident, (please don't out me if you have clocked on to who I am) and are saying horrible things again.
I started a thread on here asking for legal advise about my sons situation 2/3 years ago, I had to get the police involved then, on the advice of MN, and family, All of this has been brought up again, and they are again saying we have abused our child.
I don't live my life through facebook, have never done, I only add friends and family, I'm not a horrible person, I can't beleive a single comment has been took out of hand so much.
I'm in my early 30's and I've ended two toxic friendships in my lifetime, which are the two who have "joined" with her, and have been telling this girl about our past.
I know I shouldn't have said it, but I would not have said it if she didn't post a Facebook comment for all to see calling our children such awful names. It's not a excuse, but I a unsure as to what to do, do I need to get the police involved again, or would you class this as a separate situation.
