DP talking to me like shit in front of my son.

[TachyAtChristmas]

Two examples in the space of an hour.

1. I said to DS "dp can't fix your bike because ..."

Dp then jumped in with "no, it's not. 'Dp can't fix the bike' it's 'dp went to buy a wheel and the shop was shut, THATS what happened" I actually said it in a way that implied I was totally supporting DP and I was about to explain about the shop before he snapped and cut me off.

1. Ds was making a joke about me singing fairytale of New York after a few drinks later tonight. I laughed along and said "nah not going to happen! Dp is on an alcohol ban tonight and I'm joining him!".

Dp then snapped "no. Actually dp is not on an alcohol ban, dp is choosing not to drink, THATS what dp is doing. I was blatantly joking and just messing around :-( I then said "ok, dp is not drinking tonight so neither am I". He then snaps " let's just allow dp to get on with what dp what's to do eh?".

Every little thing. Poor ds just walked out in the end. I'm sick of this, he's doing it all the time lately, constantly snapping and getting at me. No need.

Bubalou - to be honest from OPs OP it sounds like she's a bit peed off with him already the sniping between them. I can bet it's not the first time her DS has left the room either.....

Bubalou, please don't use the word fucktard, it's very offensive.

Sorry fryone - no offence meant.

Only you can really know what is going on in this relationship. If you feel your behaviour is reasonable and this is his normal behaviour then, me too LTB

Tbh, I don't think I'd react very well to being told I was on an 'alcohol ban...'