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AIBU to take away 16m olds dummy?

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Moxiechick · 10/12/2014 19:39

My dd is 16 months old and has had a dummy since about 2 weeks old. Recently she's been losing/throwing/hiding them all and as she is fussy with which ones she has it's becoming very expensive at £5 for a pack of 2. Last week I bought 3 packs that have vanished.
So this week I decided to take it away completely. Originally I wanted to wait till she could understand that we were giving it to the fairies or Santa. As I'm a single mum I can't afford to keep buying them. I tried dummy clips but she managed to unclip them and also I didn't want to encourage her having it when she didn't need it.
It's night 3 and she's been crying for 30 minutes already and it's killing me to listen to her Sad
Should I keep it up? Will it get better? Or should I give in and wait with the extra cost? I have one hidden in my room.
Please no comments about how I shouldn't have given it to begin with, I already realise this but as someone in an ea relationship with no support and after a traumatic birth with little recovery time it was a godsend.
Helpful advice appreciated greatly!

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Starlightbright1 · 12/12/2014 20:07

well done .. You have done a great job.

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