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To laugh when people describe themselves as "cross"?

106 replies

mangoespadrille · 06/12/2014 19:44

I don't know why, but I always find it really funny. It makes me imagine an uptight, repressed middle class woman in twinset and pearls who cannot allow herself to express emotions properly. If you're angry, get angry! Say that you're pissed off, furious, enraged...cross is such a wet lettuce word.

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Zippidydoodah · 07/12/2014 06:49

Oh no, a 4/5 year old doesn't want to see miss x's cross face!!

TyrannosaurusBex · 07/12/2014 07:33

Well said, nocoolnamesleft!

Unescorted · 07/12/2014 07:45

Sometimes when "you make my piss boil" isn't appropriate "cross" steps in quite nicely.

elspethmcgillicuddy · 07/12/2014 07:47

Ah, see I am an uptight repressed middle class woman so it works well for me...

dementedma · 07/12/2014 08:47

Brilliant post cool name

usualsuspectsparkly3 · 07/12/2014 09:00

It's like saying ghastly and beastly.Those

usualsuspectsparkly3 · 07/12/2014 09:02

Words make me laugh.

NoLongerJustAShopGirl · 07/12/2014 09:07

I am cross occasionally, annoyed, vexed, upset sometimes.

I don't tend to swear and I am so laid back I don't think I have EVER been "fucking furious" - what would it TAKE to get to that level of annoyance?

MarshaBrady · 07/12/2014 09:07

I like that post cool name. Cross is a good word to use sometimes.

ssd · 07/12/2014 09:09

I totally agree op, cross sounds hilarious in a 1950's way

dementedma · 07/12/2014 09:12

I know a very upper class man who says that particular things are ,"yummy " which makes me want to laugh.

Calmthefeckdown · 07/12/2014 09:14

I know what you mean OP. I'm a primary school teacher and I used the word 'cross' with my class but at home I'm always pissed off or fuming.

I also feel the same way about the use of the word super unless being used sarcastically. I know a very tedious jolly hockey sticks sort who uses it normally without it being a piss take. It always reminds me of this

Chefpepperjack · 07/12/2014 09:14

I never said cross until I had children.
Its a good word to use with them, much less harsh than angry, it doesn't mean the same thing

sandgrown · 07/12/2014 09:18

I am from Yorkshire and I often say I am cross. When I am ranting my friend always laughs at me and asks if I am proper cross!

Charitygirl1 · 07/12/2014 09:20

'Raging' is the worst, and only see in on here. Makes me think of a rampaging, inarticulate rhino, its face bathed in sweat.

mangoespadrille · 07/12/2014 09:23

I am officially unreasonable. I shall have a badge made to that effect. Interesting posts, thanks everyone.

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chemenger · 07/12/2014 09:25

YAbu because the English language is rich in nuance and variety and sniggering childishly at certain words will narrow and diminish it. You should get over your prejudices. However I thank you for this thread because it has prompted me to try and use vexed more often.

dementedma · 07/12/2014 09:26

I love that here in Scotland when you are beyond raging you are " fit to be tied' !!!

WandaDoff · 07/12/2014 09:37

I am only cross with children.
I save all the other adjectives for adults.

mangoespadrille · 07/12/2014 09:40

Chemenger are you seriously suggesting that no words in the English language are funny? That's ludicrous enough to make me...cross!

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velourvoyageur · 07/12/2014 09:57

I like "cross", it's very Enid Blyton.

loving grated my carrot too, def adopting that Grin

ProfYaffle · 07/12/2014 10:00

I use 'cross' when I'm talking to the kids, they're terrified of my "I. AM. CROSS!!!"

Furious is great but has been spoiled for me by Hacker Grin

NotCitrus · 07/12/2014 10:21

For me, cross means "pissed off but there are children within earshot". Never used the word until I had a toddler.

DuchessofBuffonia · 07/12/2014 10:26

I used the word 'cross' with some of my Y11 students this week. I was 'rather cross' that they had betrayed my trust in letting them go to the computer room and then didn't do it (these boys are normally very hard-working and conscientious).

I was disappointed with a touch of annoyance, which cross covers well IMO.

I did not feel enough anger to be fuming, enraged or angry.

Nor did I feel helpless enough in the situation to be disgruntled, vexed, or peeved.

The boys didn't laugh at my usage of this word - they looked suitably chastised!

DuchessofBuffonia · 07/12/2014 10:27
  • go to the computer room to work on their coursework