to make dp come home to clean this mess up (warning: may put you off dinner)

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dp has just gone to his mates to watch footie leaving me with the four dc (dd and 3 dss)

youngest dss (3 yrs) has just smeared shit all over the bathroom and himself!

I told dp this and his response was ' ha ha ha I taught him that'

ive told dp to come home and clean it up. he is on his way.

serves him bleedin right for laughing

I have showered dss but I am not cleaning the rest of it up.

am I being unreasonable?

Oh yes. Just how often does he go out when the boys are at yours? I know I am over generalising but I suspect that the dad is not the resident parent.

There's nothing wrong in him going out when it's his contact time esp if its 50:50. But if its once a month contact and he always goes out leaving you to it, different story.

Quite right to pull him up on his silly comments.

if he moans about missing the football just say sorry dh shit happens

You really don't like your DP at all do you?

He was joking, you weren't.
He's coming back to clean it, you delight in having 'made him' do that.

Agree with Euphemia and Grantfuttock. If the situation were reversed and you were out and summoned back, the posters here would be absolutely up in arms and directing you to 'relationships' board to plan your exit.

If you meant this to be a light-hearted thread, it really isn't and unless you're posting for bravado, the way you speak to and about your partner really isn't good.

think I would've just cleaned it up and had a laugh about it with DP later.
I've cleaned up a lot of shit over the years-one more wouldn't have made much difference.

YANBU. What is wrong with the man?!