I'm fuming so need some outside perspective.
My DP moved in with me last year, he's worked in his current job for about 10 years. Anyway, when he moved in i came off benefits and we lived on his wage and my child tax credits, he has quite a good wage (for our area) but it wasn't enough for us to live on without scraping by each month, he said i needed to find a job
During my job search most jobs requires me to work weekends, now my DP is often offered over time at the weekend which is double time and gives us a real boost, i told him that i didn't want to work weekends mainly because of that, i was told it was tough and i was to get in the real world, you will just have to work whatever days they give.
So 6 month ago i got a job, its very flexible in that i can work opposite shifts to DP (saving on childcare) and i work every other weekend.
Now, this time of year lots of overtime on offer and all I'm hearing from DP every day is "there's so much fucking over time and i cant get in because you're working" every fucking day he's whinging about it.
Also on Fridays he starts an hour earlier when he's on evening shift, which clashes with me as my shifts stay the same, the kids are at school but it means that once a fortnight he has to walk to work (20 mins walk) and now that the weather is bad he's throwing a hissy fit because i have the car.
He wanted me to get a fucking job! I'm bringing an extra £800 a month to the family money which means I'm not having to go to him with my hand out if i need anything, less pressure on him to pay all the bills, we can have a few more luxuries etc but nope, because he has to walk to work once a fortnight
I know he wants me to quit, but why the actual fuck should i give up a job i like so that he can make more money. Id be fucking stupid to.
His argument is that 1) his job is more important because he makes around 3x more than me a month and 2) he asked me repetedly to finish earlier on that one day - yes I'll just tell my employer to make allowences for me so that DP doesn't have to get wet in the rain once a fortnight.
I'm fuming. Sorry if its a long post