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To have thought this was rude?

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daffodilsinspringtime · 04/12/2014 21:07

At work earlier, myself and another colleague were talking to the daughter of a lady who uses the services.

Colleague leaned over to do something (part of her job,) and the daughter said, 'ugh, you have been eating garlic haven't you, I can smell it.'

Colleague just said she'd had chilli chicken for lunch but afterwards we both said how rude it was!

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cheesecakemom · 04/12/2014 21:47

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sparklecrates · 04/12/2014 21:52

Oh please. The English are so obsessed with blandness. Its only because everyone is afraid of flavour that garlic is an unfamilar non white-haired mince and potatoes with no onions old Daily Mail shires sort of way.

Cauliflowersneeze1 · 04/12/2014 21:56

sparklecrates what a crock of shit

ASunnyTiger · 04/12/2014 22:00

I thought we were obsessed with adopting every one else's cuisine? Was a memo sent out that didn't reach me? Please, I must know so I can suitably re-conform with every one else.

LadyLuck10 · 04/12/2014 22:00

Sparkle you mean couchy? Grin

MammaTJ · 04/12/2014 22:32

I am a student nurse, I never eat garlic any closer than 48 hours before a shift!

That is how it should be. I need to consider those I am caring for. I make sure I wash, use deodorant and don't eat smelly foods, so I do not inflict nasty smells on to people.

You may not be a carer, but you are working closely with someone who 'uses the services', so are in a caring role, working closely with the public, even if you are not a carer. A bit of consideration for them in what you eat is not a big step to take but can make all the difference between a good experience and a bad one!

TheRealAmandaClarke · 04/12/2014 23:50

Yanbu. It was a rude thing to say.

TheRealAmandaClarke · 04/12/2014 23:57

And great news that there are so many fragrant carers here.
But that doesn't mean its polite to comment in the way as described by the OP

DecaffCoffeeAndRollupsPlease · 04/12/2014 23:57

It was a rude comment.

throwinshapes · 05/12/2014 00:15

I eat lashings of garlic most days and couldn't give a fiddlers fart for how my breath smells.
I like my healthy diet.
Live with it, people of my world, or fuck off.

NewNamePlease · 05/12/2014 00:30

It was rude to mention it.

however · 05/12/2014 01:32

It was rude. What happened was the result of living and working in a society where people eat all sorts of things, including garlic.

kittykathat · 05/12/2014 01:34

Tbh i hate when people talk over me like that

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