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To talk to myself?

22 replies

wildswans · 28/11/2014 21:23

I often 'talk' to myself, as in I debate what's going on, consider pros and cons of decisions etc. Essentially, I am thinking aloud, I think. But sometimes I wonder if this is 'normal' or not.....???!!

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AgentZigzag · 28/11/2014 21:44

Why do you think people keep dogs/cats Wink

Ours are much better decision makers than me.

I think most people say stuff out loud every now and then, it's when you get old start forgetting to switch it off when you're out in public that it gets a tad embarrassing Grin

ThursdayLast · 28/11/2014 21:46

You could be describing me wildswans!
I'm almost glad to drag DS around Tesco so it looks like I'm talking to someone

EatShitDezza · 28/11/2014 21:47

I talk to myself as well!

I also make songs up about what ever I am doing.

The hamster is fed up of hearing my voice

ThursdayLast · 28/11/2014 22:00

I also have rather impressive arguments with people who aren't there.

DramaAlpaca · 28/11/2014 22:03

I talk to myself all the time Blush.

Glad it's not just me.

Pipbin · 28/11/2014 22:05

I do it all the time. At one point when I has spent about two days alone I found myself chatting away and making two cups of tea!

AgentZigzag · 28/11/2014 22:07

If I have to say something to someone that I know they won't like I have to have a bit of a rehearsal out loud.

Basically it's me ranting to myself whilst furiously scrubbing the bathroom Grin

MrsCosmopilite · 28/11/2014 22:09

I do, and then ask myself why I'm talking to myself.

ThursdayLast · 28/11/2014 22:10

Yes agent!
And washing up!

Letthemtalk · 28/11/2014 22:12

As long as you keep making sense it's not a problem. That's what my mum always said anyway.

Jolleigh · 28/11/2014 22:14

I do that Agent! Really helps me hash out my points if I know I'll be having a difficult conversation. I've been at it for hours tonight Smile.

Floggingmolly · 28/11/2014 22:16

It's not normal at all; but I do it anyway... I'm always getting caught actually, and the reactions are far from complimentary. So glad I'm not alone Grin

Annunziata · 28/11/2014 22:19

As long as you get the right answer Grin

AgentZigzag · 28/11/2014 22:26

Glad it's not just me Grin

Anything you'd like to share Jolleigh? MN is great at coming up with scathing remarks...

ouryve · 28/11/2014 22:27

I talk myself through doing things. I forget what I was doing, otherwise.

AmIthatHot · 28/11/2014 22:34

I do it all the time and don't agree that it's not normal. I think it is perfectly normal.

Anyway, I have no DP, so have no-one else to sound off to. And I always agree with myself Grin

SwedishEdith · 28/11/2014 22:34

All the time, always have. Runs in the family but I think I've got it in control in public. Sometimes I can't wait to get away from people so I can have a more interesting conversation with myself.

Wh0dathunkit · 29/11/2014 00:55

I caught myself telling myself off for talking to myself. I promptly got a cat :)

I still do it in the office (I work with a team of people who talk to themselves) and in the supermarket... and the older I get, the less I care except when I bump into mates in the supermarket mid rant about tinned potatoes

Jolleigh · 29/11/2014 03:44

Just a friend with benefits who's become more hassle than he's worth Agent. Got my speech down to a T for when he decides I'm seeing someone else (I'm not). It really did take me ages to make sure I'd covered everything that needed saying. I was gesticulating like a mad woman too Grin.

Solo · 29/11/2014 04:03

It's normal I think and I do it all the time! Sometimes I can't even remember what I've asked myself or I'm talking about though!! Grin.
I also answer myself ~ assuming I know what I've asked!!

TOADfan · 29/11/2014 05:04

I thought everyone talked to themselves.
I can barely think of a time in the day whenI'm alone and I'm not.

I did get asked in work the other day "do you always talk to yourself?" Why yes I do.

If people don't talk to themselves is flit justquite for them all day? I can't imagine anyone who doesn't or how it would even be possible.

wildswans · 29/11/2014 06:12

Thank you for your replies. I am soooo grateful that, normal or not, I am definitely not alone!!! I also talk to my dog, but that's different; he understands me.

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