I probably am being unreasonable and a miserable cow to boot but I just hate it when people do something that they perceive as being helpful but they're not really helpful at all.
Each week I pick DD up from brownies in the car. I park outside the brownie hut car park on the side of the road as the car park gets absolutely packed, it's hard to get a space, I don't feel it's safe to over-park in there with so many children running around at collection, and by parking on the road I can get DD and literally drive off straight away.
One of DD's friends' mums is very nosey, and repeatedly asks week after week why I park on the road. I just say "Because I like to park there". Anyway last week at brownie pick up I parked on the road. This mum then walked out of the car park to the entrance and looked at me, making a beckoning movement with her hand. I got out of the car and asked why she wanted me to go there and she said she'd "reserved" me a space to park in the car park! I said that no, I was fine where I was thanks, and she stomped off as if I'd asked her to do that and as if I was ungrateful!
Then yesterday I had a woman delivery a homeware catalogue to my house. Tuesday is our rubbish collection day and our bin was full and right at the end of the driveway waiting for collection. During the morning I'd had a few bits of rubbish to get rid of so I'd put them in a supermarket carrier bag, knotted the top and popped them outside the front door ready for putting in the bin once I brought it in once emptied.
Catalogue delivery woman knocked on the door and said "You've left a bag of shopping outside". I said "No it's not shopping, it's rubbish", and she said "No, it must be shopping, it's in a carrier" and picked it up and tried to hand it to me. I said "Put it back on the floor please, it's rubbish", and again she was very huffy as if I was being unreasonable in not accepting what she said. and was even more fucking huffy when I said I didn't want her catalogue
I probably am being unreasonable and intolerant, but I just hate it when people are pushy and do an un-asked for thing that you really don't want them to do but then act all put out when you won't go along with it.