im 17 weeks pregnant with ex baby. I have tried to keep doors open so that he can see baby. He has said things like if she shows an interest in baby/pregnancy and supports me and does what he can to help. me and him might have a chance of getting back together. I have told him this cant happen. so then he will say he does not want to know the baby. So i leave it for a little while and dont contact him. Then i will send him an up date like i see the midwife today. then we end up talking again. He bought the baby pram and me a few maternity bits a couple weeks ago. I had already made it clear there is no me and him he said he knows. but still kept trying to kiss me hold my hand ect. so again i made it clear.
He does not contact me to see how things are going its always me that contacts him. and when i do it seems to turn into a hope of me and him being together. so im not sure if hes intrested in the baby at all really.
I told him i went hospital the other day. but they refused to see me because i forgot my book. i said im not going again. his reply was yeah you dont need them wankers your having a home birth anyway. Yet he never asked why i had to go.
Also hes not very nice to my children. he was quite horrible towards my 7 year old. so part of me is thinking should i just not bother contacting him at all just leave it to him if hes really that interested in the baby then he will make an effort to make contact himself. another part of me is thinking if you can be horrible to a 7 year old do i really want you near the baby. and also do you really want to know the baby or are you just trying to get to me