DH and I have a dd who is 3. We agreed that when my contraceptive implant runs out (sept 2015) I wont replace it and we will try for another baby. I don't want to start trying straight away as I do not want to have a baby before July due to my job. I'm a teacher, currently teaching my first GCSE group (I've been teaching for 10 years but the school has changed its age range) and, for my professional development, I need to see my first class through to the end of the course. Falling pregnant next September would mean a June baby. I would have to conduct the exam whilst heavily pregnant (practical subject) or pass my poor pupils off to a mat cover teacher. I do not want to do that. I want to see them through and aim for an August baby. DH is humpy with me because I want to wait a few more months. He is annoyed that I am putting my job first. I'm annoyed because why shouldn't I? It's my career. I've worked bloody hard to get to where I am today. I am the primary earner for our family, I need to consider my job. Once I have my first set of exam results under my belt I will be able to take mat leave without worrying. It is also my body. I know what I am capable of doing whilst heavily pregnant because I've been pregnant before. I only want to wait 2/3 months longer than he does. I realise I may not fall pregnant straight away but I did with dd so would rather not risk it. He is upset because he is desperate for another baby and has no control over when we have one. He is a lovely dh and a wonderful dad. I feel conflicted, half of me feels bad for him because he has very little choice as to when he gets to have another baby. The other half thinks he is a bit shit for making me feel this way and should consider how much pressure he is putting me under to have another baby. I'm annoyed because he doesn't realise the massive impact it will have on my body and my life. Aibu or is he?